americjim Posted October 3, 2005 Posted October 3, 2005 Hi, didn't think I would ever post, but I am interested in other people's experiences and maybe help someone.. My exgirlfriend of 1.5 years went away for a semester in france. Our relationship was strong and we always talked about our future marriage etc. She is 22 and i am 26. In france i sensed something was diff, even though she was still very affectionate and caring. 2 days ago she told me she's thinking about a break and is not ready for a commitment. I was very shocked as the day before she was being very sweet etc...I was not willing to wait and i told her so, and I asked her to contact her mom so I can send her stuff back. She then broke down and was asking what is she doing and she doesn't want to end it...at this point i don't know what to do as she is saying 2 diff things, that she wants to be together but she also wants new things. She again became affectionate and today left affectionate txt's and we talked and agreed to wait a few days. I'm thinking there is no point and should break it up and get it over with...anyone encountered this kind of confusion from a partner and what did you do? thanks
westernxer Posted October 3, 2005 Posted October 3, 2005 I've gone through this with a girl. What did I do? Break up, of course.
brittanyjean259 Posted October 4, 2005 Posted October 4, 2005 The one thing that sucks the most about relationships, when it comes to an end, half the time one of the partners is confused, and never knows what they want until its gone!....boo
ReluctantRomeo Posted October 4, 2005 Posted October 4, 2005 I'm thinking there is no point and should break it up and get it over with...anyone encountered this kind of confusion from a partner and what did you do? thanks Yup, if they take one step back, you should take two. Don't be there as her safety net while she thinks "do I, don't I?". She should face the costs of not being with you straight away.
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