Gr8fuln2020 Posted December 31, 2019 Posted December 31, 2019 On 12/30/2019 at 10:50 AM, Gr8fuln2020 said: I'm in IT and my friend is a lawyer. Both super busy. We find time to see each other a couple of times a day or plan ahead to do so...no excuses. Sorry. Meant to say "We find time to see each other a couple of times a WEEK...." NOT day!
Watercolors Posted December 31, 2019 Posted December 31, 2019 3 hours ago, The Outlaw said: But in hindsight, you're better off without a ghoster than with one. Be with someone that wants to be with you and won't just cut and run without notice. I agree. It's too bad you don't know you've met a ghoster, until they ghost you. 1
Author fromheart Posted December 31, 2019 Author Posted December 31, 2019 13 hours ago, Metsgal said: I think the next time a guy tells me he's "too busy" I'm going to call him out. Listen, if doctor/brain surgeon/ER physician can make time for their wife/kids, even if they do get busy, they still make time for them no matter what. What for though? If your a good person and haven't done them any wrong there's nothing they can tell you. You apply your self work, and its up to you what you may or may not need to improve upon. As a man if you ask why, you usually get told you're needy or something along those lines. Asking will confirm this, or may give them a reason when there wasn't a conscious one before. Been there in my younger days. Nice guy behavior. I remember meeting a girl to hear her reasons for ending it. She'd arranged the meeting, we were crashing in an apartment at the time and I'd left as she'd talked about ending it. I was doing her a courtesy by meeting her really. I got bored during the conservation, so got up and started to leave. She insisted on me staying, but now she had no reasons for ending it and just wanted my company. I left eventually. Few days later, I was hanging out with another girl. First girl again wanted to see me and offered me sex. I turned her down. Couple of months later she wanted to give it another go. I don't take back dumpers. I'm not interested in reasons and why. It's boring drivel. I decide what I need to improve on and as my gf's are usually about 10-15 years younger, I'm certainly not going to listen to a younger woman tell me what she thinks I'm about. Yawn.
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