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Struggling with how to handle my girlfriend’s past.


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Quick update on this.

Consensus seems to be that this is a mental health issue, so I spoke to my doctor. He tried to put me on pills but I’d rather do therapy. He seemed to think I’m depressed but as I’m happy the majority of the time (as long as I’m not left alone with my thoughts) I don’t agree.

Some days are better than others. The “second choice” feeling sometimes goes away, sometimes it comes back. I had a wobble yesterday obsessing over whether her ex was really as bad in bed as she’s said, but composed myself and didn’t say anything to her.

Te whole thing hasn’t come up in a couple of weeks and we’re getting on.

 

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