LonelyKay Posted October 3, 2005 Posted October 3, 2005 My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years, and for the last 2 years we have both been really unhappy. I have been debating about moving out for some time now. 2 weeks ago I signed up to move into an apartment. I move in 3 days. When I told my bf, he was fine with it, and said that we could still hang out and occasionally date. Now he seems so upset by the fact that "I gave up" on our relationship he won't even talk to me. We still live together, and it is so hard not to argue!! We have a daughter together, she is 3 years old. When I asked him about her and who gets what days sort of thing, he told me he would call me at my new apt. and let me know what works for him. I go from being so depressed that I am actually moving out, to feeling anger towards him because he could never grow up...AGggg, it is really stressing me out! If anyone has a few words of wisdom, I am listening:)
johan Posted October 4, 2005 Posted October 4, 2005 I think it's lame that no one has responded to you yet. You have a very complicated situation. All I can say is I hope it works out so that your daughter is ok with it. You seem to be handling it ok. Two years of unhappiness is a lot to endure. It's sad for something that has lasted six years to end though. Good luck.
Author LonelyKay Posted October 4, 2005 Author Posted October 4, 2005 Thank you Johan. My BF is a recovering alcoholic, each time we would "break up" he would clean up his act and stop drinking (for a few days) then he would be back to his usual self. This time I told him, I wasn't falling for it anymore. So, I am doing ok. Just worried about our daughter. She is too young to understand why we are "leaving Daddy's house", but old enough to know that she won't be able to be with us both (at the same time). It is heartbreaking. But I just don't love the man like I use to. It gets old dealing with someone who drinks for a living. Thank you for taking the time to write back:)
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