Keeves1 Posted December 25, 2019 Posted December 25, 2019 (edited) Hello, My friend invited me to he’s house to play cards and games... I’m really thinking about bringing Maria along I’m not to sure if she likes to play cards tho. Questions here would be: Does she wants to spend the New years eve with me alone or not? another option is to go out and eat at a pizza restaurant since she loves that food and after that go watch the fireworks. I’m highly considering the first options because it would be a good atmosphere bringing her along to my friend’s house. It’s a great way for her to get to know my friends even more. Does anyone have other suggestions on what me and Maria could do on NYE? Edited December 25, 2019 by Keeves1
preraph Posted December 25, 2019 Posted December 25, 2019 Both of them sounds like fun. I think you should ask Maria which one of those she would like to do. 1
Author Keeves1 Posted December 25, 2019 Author Posted December 25, 2019 (edited) 10 minutes ago, preraph said: Both of them sounds like fun. I think you should ask Maria which one of those she would like to do. Yes and not only that but I could ask her this: What should I present you as to my friends? depending on her answer I can know where I stand with her If she says: You can present me as your girlfriend» then we all know she wants to be my GF hehhe. Actually I would be in shock if she says that because that’s way to early Edited December 25, 2019 by Keeves1
preraph Posted December 25, 2019 Posted December 25, 2019 Well if you have already kissed her, then you can introduce her as your girlfriend, but if you haven't, just say, This is Marie, and keep them all guessing. You don't want one of your friends to think she's not your girlfriend and flirt. So just introduce her by name.
Author Keeves1 Posted December 25, 2019 Author Posted December 25, 2019 (edited) 13 hours ago, preraph said: Well if you have already kissed her, then you can introduce her as your girlfriend, but if you haven't, just say, This is Marie, and keep them all guessing. You don't want one of your friends to think she's not your girlfriend and flirt. So just introduce her by name. Well... I have told my friends about Marie so they know that we aren’t a couple. Do you think it will still work? Edited December 25, 2019 by Keeves1
Author Keeves1 Posted December 25, 2019 Author Posted December 25, 2019 (edited) 27 minutes ago, Keeves1 said: Well... I have told my friends about Marie so they know that we aren’t a couple. Do you think it will still work? I want comment to my reply hahaha. preraph, I don’t think they would be guessing if I already told them that we are just dating. I’d go for asking Marie how she wants to be introduced xP Edited December 25, 2019 by Keeves1
preraph Posted December 25, 2019 Posted December 25, 2019 Instead of leaving it open-ended when you ask her how she wants to be introduced, why don't you just say, Can I introduce you as my girlfriend?
Author Keeves1 Posted December 25, 2019 Author Posted December 25, 2019 1 hour ago, preraph said: Instead of leaving it open-ended when you ask her how she wants to be introduced, why don't you just say, Can I introduce you as my girlfriend? We agreed! But things may be going forward to quick don’t ya think? the next step is: what should I wear to NYE at my friends house?
preraph Posted December 25, 2019 Posted December 25, 2019 Dress just casual unless it's actually a party with more people there. Just wear casual but not old looking clothes since it's a special holiday. 1
smackie9 Posted December 26, 2019 Posted December 26, 2019 Why not walk in holding hands and just introduce her by name. "This is ______" 1
Author Keeves1 Posted December 28, 2019 Author Posted December 28, 2019 On 12/26/2019 at 12:55 AM, preraph said: Dress just casual unless it's actually a party with more people there. Just wear casual but not old looking clothes since it's a special holiday. There is going to be about 10 people all together. But since she agreed to let me introduce her as my GF... does that mean we are officially BF and GF? 1
preraph Posted December 28, 2019 Posted December 28, 2019 Well why don't you bring that up when you are with her? I don't know or remember how long you have been dating, but maybe after about 3 months, if things are still going well, ask her if she would like to be exclusive and you two not date other people. Probably a little soon for that yet. But you can still call her your girlfriend. until you have the exclusive talk you're both free to date other people although it's probably not a great idea if you really like each other. 1
Author Keeves1 Posted December 28, 2019 Author Posted December 28, 2019 2 minutes ago, preraph said: until you have the exclusive talk you're both free to date other people although it's probably not a great idea if you really like each other. Yes it’s way too soon. I’ve only been with her for 1 month. Well as for now I’ll call her my girlfriend but I won’t bring it up when I’m with her... I just don’t know what to say. I’d rather wait 2-3 months and then have the talk with her regarding not dating other people. what did you mean by your last sentence? I don’t want her to date other people
preraph Posted December 28, 2019 Posted December 28, 2019 What I meant is that right now after only having dated a month and not having any agreements about being exclusive to each other which I agree is too soon, theoretically you are both free to date other people because it's okay to date more than one person as long as you have not made a commitment to only date one person. If she found out you were dating someone, she might not like you as much though just like you would rather she wasn't, but technically you're both free to do so because you're just dating at this point. But you can introduce her as your girlfriend to friends. 1
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