KJA Posted October 3, 2005 Posted October 3, 2005 Ok, I am really heartbroken right now. My girlfriend of 6 months has told me that we need to take a break for a bit. She wants to not talk for a week then go back to slowly dating for a bit. I will fill you in. She is a nurse. We dated for 2 months and then she was fired from her job for popping pills. She needed to go to in house treatment for 30 days. I stood by her through this all. Didnt have a clue she was popping the pills but needless to say I stood by her. She made it through the treatment and then its been tough for her to find a job, however she just did two weeks ago. I on the other hand lost my job a month ago due to layoffs and am looking. So things havent been easy for us. She thinks that she is spending way to much time at home with nothing to do because she wont start work for 30 more days, analyzing all my faults. She states that she has lost respect for me and doesnt have fun anymore. She has a very strong personality. She says I just sit and take what she says and accepts it....I dont stand up to her. I am a layed back person. In my eyes she was going through tough times and I wanted to create the least amount of stress as possible so I tried to make things easy. She has told me that have so many great qualities that she doesnt want to give up on yet. However she needs a person that will stand up to her. We talked and argued on Thursday...decided a week would be good....then I called her Friday with a few questions for her which led to another argument...then I called again Sat leaving a VM telling her I wanted to talk to her about some things I have probably been wrong about. She hasnt returned my call...which could mean so many things but I am going with she isnt calling back because it would just lead to more arguing and more back and forth crap and this is suppose to be a time for a break. I need help.....are we doomed? am I doomed? Can this be fixed? Will she call back? I know its only been Sunday and part of the day, but wont she start to miss me sooon or not? She said she loved me, but lost respect for me because I wouldnt stand up to her all the time and hence has falllen out of love....what do I do? I really do love this girl....and now I am hurt....
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