Keeves1 Posted December 19, 2019 Posted December 19, 2019 (edited) Hello. Maria is coming over tomorrow and we agreed to make chicken with broccoli and then watch netflix. It’s highly possible that we are going to have sex BUT that’s not it. My head is empty and I don’t have any questions nor do I have any topics to talk to her about. I’m currently stressed out because of that. I don’t know what to say. Could anyone please give me a helping hand? A similar one happened two years ago: For some reason I have a bad feeling that Maria would reject me after this day. I had a similar experience with a girl that I knew for 8 months. She was eager to come over, we had sex and then she left me. For unknown reason I do get the same vibe from Maria. Altough it’s possible that I’m overthinking because it’s two completely differents girls and the girl that rejected me two years ago was younger than Maria. Edited December 19, 2019 by Keeves1 Added something extra ;)
alphamale Posted December 19, 2019 Posted December 19, 2019 trump impeachment; is FOX news part of the mainstream media?; have you ever eaten scrapple; what do you like on your pizza; do you like cunnilingus? pepsi or coke? what do you like most at taco bell? what are your plans for NYE? what's new with your family? is it ok to put up an xmas tree before thanksgiving? what was the best vacation you ever took?; which steakhouse do you like the best?; do you like eddie murphy?; are you a nervous flyer?; have you ever broken a bone?; where do you buy most of your clothes?; if you could have any car in the world what would you choose; what's your credit rating? et al.... 2 1
Happy Lemming Posted December 19, 2019 Posted December 19, 2019 Search the local news websites for some feel good stories... In addition to "alphamale's" suggestions... Favorite birthday?? Best day you've ever had?? Scariest thing you've ever done?? Do you like camping??
K.K. Posted December 20, 2019 Posted December 20, 2019 So tonight’s the night huh?! I feel so scared for this guy. Hope you have some good news for us, Keeves! Fingers crossed ! 1
d0nnivain Posted December 20, 2019 Posted December 20, 2019 Breathe. This is a date, not a 60 Minutes investigative journalism interview. Let it flow naturally but the following are good conversation starters: How was her trip over to your place? How was her day? Is she ready for the holidays? What's her favorite holiday memory? What are her family traditions? What is she looking forward to the most? Does she have NYE plans? This would be your cue to make some What is her favorite thing to cook? What are you going to watch on Netflix & why? What movies are in the theaters or coming out that she wants to see? Again this is fodder for next date planning. Does she want to hit up any after Christmas sales with you? 2
gaius Posted December 20, 2019 Posted December 20, 2019 Who is Maria, is she ugly or attractive, tall or short, blonde or brunette. Figure out who she is and put yourself in her head. Once you do it's not that hard to find something she might find interesting to talk about. Also, whether or not the date is going to go well is already predetermined. You are who you are, you have the skills you have and whether or not you're going to click is set in stone. It's just up to you to enjoy the ride and see what happens. Stop worrying so much about what you don't have a whole lot of control over.
Gaeta Posted December 20, 2019 Posted December 20, 2019 You are not along in this, she will feed the conversation as much as you will. Just ask questions to get to know her like D0nnivain suggested. She will reply and that will inspire you for other questions, etc. 1
fishlips Posted December 20, 2019 Posted December 20, 2019 Movies or music are good topics. Or places you would like to visit, or have visited. Or politics or religion, if you are feeling brave. If you can't come up with anything to talk about, then you'll know you aren't compatible. 1
2BGoodAgain Posted December 20, 2019 Posted December 20, 2019 sigh... one of the easiest topics to talk about with ANYONE... is just asking them about them. how are YOU doing? How is work/school/event? What do YOU think about [place topic here]. of course, if she's the quiet type, just kiss her and have a nice sex/pillow talk time afterwards... don't over think it. If she dumps you afterwards, it was gonna happen anyway... it doesn't matter if it's sex or not.. if you're that afraid it's gonna happen after sex, don't have sex. Just talk and have fun. don't over think it. ask about anything related to what you're currently doing... making chicken, watching netflix, after netflix, what kind of panties she likes wearing... just make it about her, and you'll have plenty of things to talk about.
Author Keeves1 Posted December 21, 2019 Author Posted December 21, 2019 On 12/20/2019 at 1:16 AM, K.K. said: So tonight’s the night huh?! I feel so scared for this guy. Hope you have some good news for us, Keeves! Fingers crossed ! We made food together and after that we watched a movie on netflix and then I got laid... twice actually. She slept over and we had sex in the morning. Only thing I’m wondering is: did I pass the sh** test she was doing? I will make a thread soon 2
alphamale Posted December 21, 2019 Posted December 21, 2019 11 minutes ago, Keeves1 said: ... and then I got laid... twice actually. way to go Keeves1
Author Keeves1 Posted December 21, 2019 Author Posted December 21, 2019 11 minutes ago, alphamale said: way to go Keeves1 I know right! But I have no idea what to do next She said she wanted to spend New years eve with me but we haven’t made any plans yet and I have no idea what we can do that day 1
alphamale Posted December 21, 2019 Posted December 21, 2019 2 minutes ago, Keeves1 said: I know right! But I have no idea what to do next She said she wanted to spend New years eve with me but we haven’t made any plans yet and I have no idea what we can do that day get tickets to a NYE party being held at a nice restaurant or bar (make sure its a decent place, don't take her to a dump)
Brennan72 Posted December 23, 2019 Posted December 23, 2019 I don't like small talk, and I don't like to talk about current events (with women) Here are some good conversation topics, and you can watch some short videos or listen to songs with her 1. What do you think is the one "perfect" movie scene? What makes it perfect? Examples of answers (from me): The "two piano" scene from Betty Blue (look it up on youtube) The ending of Lost in Translation The ending of Rosetta (more serious) 2. Who is your favorite artist, or artists? Have you seen any of their works? When? William Glackens, John Sloan, John Singer Sargent, etc. 3. Do you have any favorite quotes? "Nobody even imagines how well one can lie about the state of one's heart" -Mishima "If you do not behave as you believe, you will end up believing as you behave" (more serious) -Fulton Sheen 4. What do you like to listen to when you are stressed or feeling down? -- The key here is to direct the conversation into a deep romantic place and really get to know this girl. 1
smackie9 Posted December 24, 2019 Posted December 24, 2019 There are plenty of hotels that have NYE events too. Or find dinner somewhere and go watch the fireworks. Most cities have an outdoor venue that are free, with food vendors if she's that type. I don't know why you have to make all the planning She's aggressive enough, I'm sure shes will make the arrangements and probably tell you what you will be wearing....that's next lol. 1
Author Keeves1 Posted December 25, 2019 Author Posted December 25, 2019 (edited) 2 hours ago, smackie9 said: There are plenty of hotels that have NYE events too. Or find dinner somewhere and go watch the fireworks. Most cities have an outdoor venue that are free, with food vendors if she's that type. I don't know why you have to make all the planning She's aggressive enough, I'm sure shes will make the arrangements and probably tell you what you will be wearing....that's next lol. My friend invited me to he’s house to play cards and games... I’m really thinking about bringing Maria as well. I’m not to sure if she likes to play cards tho. Questions is: Does she wants to spend the New years eve with me alone or not? another options is to go out and eat at a pizza restaurant since she loves that food and after that maybe go somewhere to lit up fireworks. I’m highly considering the first options because it would be a good atmosphere bringing her to my friend’s house. It’s a great way for her to get to know my friend more Edited December 25, 2019 by Keeves1 Got to change things up on my last sentence
smackie9 Posted December 25, 2019 Posted December 25, 2019 (edited) Or you feel kinda obligated to go over your friend's place so they are not alone on NYE? Me I would simply inquire what she would like to do. But that's just me. I don't know her or her expectations. Some like to be at a party all dressed up, some like to go out walking around, some want to go see fireworks so they can have that passionate kiss when the ball drops. Edited December 25, 2019 by smackie9
Author Keeves1 Posted December 25, 2019 Author Posted December 25, 2019 1 minute ago, smackie9 said: Or you feel kinda obligated to go over your friend's place so they are not alone on NYE? No I don’t. I want to go because it would be fun and also introduce her to them
smackie9 Posted December 25, 2019 Posted December 25, 2019 So you feel it's the right time to introduce her to your friends...ya I get it.
Author Keeves1 Posted December 25, 2019 Author Posted December 25, 2019 33 minutes ago, smackie9 said: So you feel it's the right time to introduce her to your friends...ya I get it. Yes
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