Mother-In-Law creating problem.

[Nikki79ua]

Hi. I am 26 year's married. We have completed one year of our wedding. I have the problem

with my mother-in-law and sister-in-law. They are very open to my husband. My mothe-in-law

changes her blouse and saari without feeling that her son,daughter and daughter-in law ar

e present in the room. I am very furious at that time. My husband also don't care wheather

she is changing her clothes. It happens many time and I am not able to stop such kind of

think which makes me angry and I make quarrel with my husband.My husband also don't care m

y these feeling. Sometime I also noticed that my husband touches her breasts or hip or but

taks. My family life is not going well due to this. My mother-in-law , husband and sister-

in-law thinks that I amd not linking to live with then. But I respects my in-laws. Once

my husband told me before our marriage that "3 years ago, he and her sister suck her mothe

r's breast nipple for milk". I have a baby boy of5 months. When he was born, my husband sl

eptwith his father and sister in a single bed due to space problem and I was very tense th

ose days for this. I started quarreling with him from that time. All such kinds of things

are coming in my way. I think I have to go to the doctor. Although my husband is very cari

ng and helpful for me but I can't face such type of scenes. What should I do? I told my pr

oblem to my husband but he said that "I am narrow minded, he can do such kind of thing b'c

oz she is his mother"?

[Lil Honey]

I don't know what country you are from, but here in the US, that's incestuous. Well, in MY mind, it's incest no matter WHERE one lives . . .

[Nikki79ua]

I know there is no relationshp between my mother-in-law and my husband but their living manner disturb me.

My husband did not understand me. I am from India. I told my problem many time to my husband but he is not agree to compromise.

According to him this relationship is between a son and his mother and their is no problem in this. But I think if son is not yough then this relationship is wrong.

I will thankful to you if you will advice me what to do? I am helpless I do not want to talk to my parents regarding this and in this city, DELHI-India, I have no friends, B'coz I am from another state.