Sassydiva Posted December 12, 2019 Posted December 12, 2019 I have been going back and forth with this guy for almost a year-and it finally hit me on the head today! I feel like I have been settling and just allowing him to disrespect me. I should have given him the boot a long time ago..it was so obvious he doesn’t care but I kept thinking that things will turn around NO. All he ever wants to do is hang out in his house, drink, and then we pass out at the end of the night. We did have some sporadic times we would go out, but really it’s not often at all. Whenever I would bring it up he would talk about his finances and having to pay bills first. But he has money to spend on other stuff including alcohol. Never took me to events his friends were hosting because it was always last minute-apparently. We just spent the holiday together so I thought we were becoming closer-wrong. He knows just what to say to keep me around from moving on and meeting someone better. So he went to this free event and I had mentioned how I wouldn’t mind going and he ignored me. Then I text him later in the evening and he replied by telling me how much fun they were having as if to rub it in! I just feel if you like someone, you will want to include them in things and bring them to things with you..I feel like I have really been lowering my standards and he keeps me around as an option because he has no respect for me at all.
Malin889 Posted December 13, 2019 Posted December 13, 2019 (edited) Yes you need to be rid of him, find someone who will treat you right and respect you more. Let guys take you out. you’ll find someone better. Edited December 13, 2019 by Malin889
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