Outcast Posted October 4, 2005 Posted October 4, 2005 Originally Posted by portableversion Is to presume that they DO NOT have feelings. So don't worry about saying the right or wrong things, date other guys and let him know about it, forget his birthday, and in essence, just treat him like 'one of the guys'. I mean, men don't feel so they won't care. AND presume that they are PIGS until they prove to you otherwise. Afterall, if a guys says he's a pig (and so many do) then treat him as one. I suspect this post is in the tradition of other posters here who post bogus 'advice' as a joke but leave out the smileys. Annoying, isn't it? Thanks! I actually have a very ODDBALL friend who is a male and he kinda let me see the "manual" about how to figure out men. He gave me a complete rundown and spilled the beans. Holy s***, I tell ya, makes life so much easier now...f***, sometimes I wanna think like a guy! It's so much lighter and not intense! John Gray spilled those beans and a lot more in 'Men are From Mars Women are From Venus'. It's a worthwhile read, Mary and others.
Author Mary3 Posted October 4, 2005 Author Posted October 4, 2005 I have heard alot about and have read portions from it....
RecordProducer Posted October 5, 2005 Posted October 5, 2005 You are the type of women I stay away from. Hey, where's your sense of humor? Do you really think I care about dimensions more than about emotions??? I am an incurable idealist and romantic, I could NEVER be with a guy with no emotions. In fact I think some men and women don't have emotions and some are very emotional. All the combinations in between are also included amid the population. But honestly a guy that whines, shows his weakness too much and can't take a defeat is not sexy. Just my personal feeling... BTW, I've noticed that since your testosterone has been taken care of, you've become calmer. Hope your girl is treating you well.
MassiveAtom Posted October 5, 2005 Posted October 5, 2005 Since when? Most guys ARE emotional. in many cases even moreso than women. Oh yeah, Hey all, I'm back! We just don't behave the same way women do about the things they get emotional over. Take flowers. give a girl flowers and she gets all melty. give a GUY flowers, he feels a twinge of embarrassment. Or humor, make a woman laugh, she feels like you have your ****e together. Make a GUY laugh, he thinks you just know a funny joke. Have a woman break up with a guy who really loved her - he's broken for some time. the inverse will find her happy and dating in about half the time of the poor slob ex-boyfriend. He'll just have starting drinking heavily and thinking that MAYBE women aren't all that bad. Or how about the playoffs, last down of the last quarter tied up and no chance to punt. YOU BET he's emotional. Her? mmmmmm, not so much. granted these are all glaring generalizations, but I think you get my intent and message. be well!
Woggle Posted October 5, 2005 Posted October 5, 2005 Hey, where's your sense of humor? Do you really think I care about dimensions more than about emotions??? I am an incurable idealist and romantic, I could NEVER be with a guy with no emotions. In fact I think some men and women don't have emotions and some are very emotional. All the combinations in between are also included amid the population. But honestly a guy that whines, shows his weakness too much and can't take a defeat is not sexy. Just my personal feeling... BTW, I've noticed that since your testosterone has been taken care of, you've become calmer. Hope your girl is treating you well. In no way have a I gone soft but it doesn't pay to be as angry as I was. Never will I become emasculated though. Luckily my girlfriend likes real men not emasculated weenies.
lilmoma1973 Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 I don't think it makes a man a wuss because he shows his emotions .. I think it makes us see that they have a heart and aren't as cold as we think they are.. I went to counseling with my h and the counselor made him cry and get his feelings out and he won't go back.. I know men can show them but i think they are scared to because then they want think they are a real man cause got broke down.. I like to see a man show his emotions but that does happen very often and i find that they think it makes them an weak individual if they do so they tend not to.. i think if men did more often it would be less divorces because women won't go looking somewhere else
Woggle Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 I don't think it makes a man a wuss because he shows his emotions .. I think it makes us see that they have a heart and aren't as cold as we think they are.. I went to counseling with my h and the counselor made him cry and get his feelings out and he won't go back.. I know men can show them but i think they are scared to because then they want think they are a real man cause got broke down.. I like to see a man show his emotions but that does happen very often and i find that they think it makes them an weak individual if they do so they tend not to.. i think if men did more often it would be less divorces because women won't go looking somewhere else I am far from a wuss. In fact i don't take crap from anybody but I am not afraid to show I have a heart. I am not an emotionless robot and I am working on becoming strong enough to expose my heart and then pick it up and fix it should it get stomped on. Becoming numb to the world so you never get hurt is a form of weakness not strength.
lilmoma1973 Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 Hey Woggle, I was putting all men down .. I just was saying most men are scared to show that they have a heart.. I am glad that there is men aren't afraid to wear their heart on their sleeve..You and Moose are one of the few that know how a women wants to be treated and are willing to treat them how they are deserved!! I respect men like that .. i always hear Moose talking about how his wife is his soul mate.. I don't know you as well as i know Moose but im sure you are a good man too ..I didn't mean to offend you
Woggle Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 Hey Woggle, I was putting all men down .. I just was saying most men are scared to show that they have a heart.. I am glad that there is men aren't afraid to wear their heart on their sleeve..You and Moose are one of the few that know how a women wants to be treated and are willing to treat them how they are deserved!! I respect men like that .. i always hear Moose talking about how his wife is his soul mate.. I don't know you as well as i know Moose but im sure you are a good man too ..I didn't mean to offend you Apparently you haven't read some of my other posts. The women on here don't like me too much. For the most part I don't trust women but the woman I am with now is truly special. She deserves any great treatment I have to offer because I know she would do the same for me.
westernxer Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 Check out the September Reader's Digest... feature has to do with men and emotions.
jaye Posted October 8, 2005 Posted October 8, 2005 I don't find men to be un-emotional. I just LOVE 'em the way they are! you mean all guys? regardless what they are?
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