What am I doing wrong?

[bradt93]

10 hours ago, preraph said:

I'm sorry you're uncomfortable coping at school, but try to stay focused at school and forget about the social aspect of it.  I went back to night school in my 30s and I can tell you I was invisible to all the young 20-something students.  Not my crowd!  It used to be that night school had more older people in it, but that wasn't the case when I did it decades ago, so I guess it's a mixed bag.  Anyway, just focus on your education.  College coeds are at the top of the food chain and have a lot of options.   

I wonder if they purposely ignore us 30s college students? I know they have better options with their age limit? And when is 31 old? I'm still a millenial.

I am guilty though of I'm being to myself and not at least trying to start conversations with people. I guess it's a symptom of my aspergers. Bipolar has nothing to do with socialization.

[preraph]

To most 20-somethings, 30 seems very ADULT.  There is a maturity gap and an experience gap there.  No, 30, is a great age.  It's just not ideal for attracting people younger than 25, that's all.  It's normally a good age in a man because he gains a little maturity.  

[bradt93]

2 hours ago, preraph said:

To most 20-somethings, 30 seems very ADULT.  There is a maturity gap and an experience gap there.  No, 30, is a great age.  It's just not ideal for attracting people younger than 25, that's all.  It's normally a good age in a man because he gains a little maturity.  

Yea, most 30 year old students are probably in graduate getting their PHD, but my situation is very different and it is not a situation in which I wanted.

I know I can't go back in time and change my past, but if I could I would be working by now and probably dating a lot of women one at a time of course. Maybe even married.

[bradt93]

Damn bipolar and aspergers has delayed my life.