calworld Posted October 3, 2005 Posted October 3, 2005 I gave a spare key to my ex. I am wondering if I should break NC to get the key back. I am pretty much done with her(90%). I don't want to be an ass since her b-day is next week. Should I do it after her b-day? Any opinions are welcome. Thanks
NewLee40 Posted October 3, 2005 Posted October 3, 2005 I was in a similar situation. The advice I got was the best. Don't contact him, just change the locks.
Art_Critic Posted October 3, 2005 Posted October 3, 2005 If you MUST break NC to get your key back then email her and tell her to mail it to you.. Personally.. You need to let it go .. If it was about security changing the locks is the only answer.. Because she can make a copy at any time before she gives it back.. $.75 is all the key is worth .. Your pride is worth more. And when her b-day comes send nothing.. no email.. no card.. You don't break up with someone and say I hate you.. But lets remember our b-days and holidays.. You are already looking for a reason to break NC .. I count 2 reasons alone in your post..
Author calworld Posted October 3, 2005 Author Posted October 3, 2005 How about I ask her brother to get the key back? Thanks
Art_Critic Posted October 3, 2005 Posted October 3, 2005 How about I ask her brother to get the key back? Thanks that is breaking NC.. why do you need the key back ? so you can hurt her ? it won't you know
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