Unrequitedlover Posted December 2, 2019 Posted December 2, 2019 I was out yesterday with some people that I work with and met my guy friends from college. The one I’m closest with hugged me (let’s call him Y) and told me that “X” was interested in me. I didn’t really come as a surprise but just kind of laughed it off. X comes up to me and tells me that I’m so pretty, that he really digs my personality etc. This is all very flattering and I think he is a cool guy. He was very drunk, and I become kind of awkward and just kind of gave off “what-do-I-do” stares to Y (I’m a closer friend with Y, then what him and X are). He didn’t seem to take my signals and just kind of smiled back, or made jokes about me and X. They were also out with some guys I have never met before, and they all stared when I first came into the room. One also came up to me (I have never met him) and told me that “X” was very nervous?? I asked why, but then X came up and his friend switched topic. What is going on? He sends me generic messages throughout the day, but has never asked me out or anything?
d0nnivain Posted December 2, 2019 Posted December 2, 2019 X likes you. He made a bad impression because he made a bad choice: he used too much liquid courage to be able to talk to you. If you are connected on social media reach out to him & tell him that you'd love to get to know him better while he was sober. You need to make it easy & not scary for him to talk to you. He's terrified on betting hurt.
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