Springsummer Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 (edited) we sent 'good night' pics in tinder before bed. He said the good night pic wasn't very good. I didn't reply. This morning he sent me this: https://media3.giphy.com/media/3o7TKWKHCUtXZXvj9K/200.gif?cid=992ce7146ca9b199f90b1ff1adf1c6a5f82f7d734a389294&rid=200.gif&width=267&height=200 I copied and then google the URL. doesn't really spell out ...what's the meaning of the pic? I don't really get it. He seems like a gentleman? Anyone illuminate me? I gather it's kind of 'sexy dirty mind'. we have only started talking for a week, haven't really met. How dirty is it? is it respectful? offensive? what's the exact meaning? oh, no...is it normal for people to do that now?? Edited December 1, 2019 by Springsummer
Happy Lemming Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 I don't really like it... It's not appropriate, especially if you two haven't had your first date yet. If you had been dating for 6 months, maybe it would be funny, but under the circumstances (my opinion is) its in poor taste. I'm not one for sending pictures, anyway, but if I was saying "good night" to someone, I'd probably go outside and take a picture of the moon or the stars. Now that I have my Christmas lights up, I may take a picture of those with the pitch black of the night as the background.
FMW Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 I don't know if it's normal or not but I would be put off by it. Doesn't seem like a particularly gentlemanly thing to send.
Author Springsummer Posted December 1, 2019 Author Posted December 1, 2019 I don't really like it... It's not appropriate, especially if you two haven't had your first date yet. If you had been dating for 6 months, maybe it would be funny, but under the circumstances (my opinion is) its in poor taste. I'm not one for sending pictures, anyway, but if I was saying "good night" to someone, I'd probably go outside and take a picture of the moon or the stars. Now that I have my Christmas lights up, I may take a picture of those with the pitch black of the night as the background. yes. but what exactly is the meaning? even though I gather it resemble a bodily part. so what should I do now?
Author Springsummer Posted December 1, 2019 Author Posted December 1, 2019 I don't know if it's normal or not but I would be put off by it. Doesn't seem like a particularly gentlemanly thing to send. I can't believe...he seems like a perfect gentleman.
The Outlaw Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 For someone you haven't met that isn't cool. 1
Happy Lemming Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 yes. but what exactly is the meaning? even though I gather it resemble a bodily part. so what should I do now? The banana is flashing its private parts. This "gentleman caller" is attempting to introduce "sex" into your conversation. He has no class. If you want to go out with him, make it perfectly clear that you are NOT going to have sex on the first date and if that is what he is looking for he should move on. Personally, I'd throw this one back.
Ruby Slippers Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 It's sexual in nature. He's trying to plant a seed in your mind about what he wants, sex. I wouldn't meet a guy who said or did anything sexual before meeting. 3
The Outlaw Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 If you think he's a perfect gentlemen, it's a ruse. Some guys will only do that to get into your pants. He sounds more like a d*bag.
preraph Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 Well, now you know what's on his mind. It's inappropriate and stupid and I just can't fathom what man would think this would titillate a woman, especially one he's not met. Really, I just think it's gross and I wouldn't even talk to him again. 1
FMW Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 Look at the other GIFs that appear below it. There's a theme, it's not hard to decipher. 1
Author Springsummer Posted December 1, 2019 Author Posted December 1, 2019 alright. Thanks everyone. I just can't believe. now I doubt if it's his real profile. it is a tall, handsome and appear to be a serious looking lawyer. he said he can teach me guitar and French. for all I know now, nothing could be true. I will just ignore from now on. god, no one really exists for me. 1
d0nnivain Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 He probably is a guitar playing, French speaking lawyer. He's also horny & crass. He's on Tinder for it's original purpose: a quick, no strings attached hook up. 3
Author Springsummer Posted December 1, 2019 Author Posted December 1, 2019 He probably is a guitar playing, French speaking lawyer. He's also horny & crass. He's on Tinder for it's original purpose: a quick, no strings attached hook up. He said looking for a connection and see where things could go in his profile...so that doesn't preclude it from hookup?
d0nnivain Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 He said looking for a connection and see where things could go in his profile...so that doesn't preclude it from hookup? The highlighted part is just a nicer way of saying he doesn't want a commitment. It screams "I want a hookup". It does not preclude hooking up.
Lisa_Lisa Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 You don't even know if that's really him unless you meet him in person.
TheFinalWord Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 Can you ask him what it means? That's what I would do. Because on one hand, it seems silly. If this is his way of planing a sexual seed in your mind, he has a lot to learn about game. It's such a lame attempt at trying to get sex, it leads me to believe he can't be that naive and it's likely harmless. I would message "sexy dirty mind??" See what he says... 3
chillii Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 (edited) He said your goodnight pic wasn't very good , Jezuz, nice, he was hoping for something more sexual. His pic obviously means he's woken up horny , it's a two in one, male / female , it's all suggestiveness hoping you welcome it and oblige. Ahhh, to put it politely. By the sounds your nowhere near on that level with him yet don't blame ya seems you haven't even met yet. Wouldn't take too much notice of what his profile says if he's sending and saying stuff like this already when your obviously no where even near it yet. Def' pushing for the hook up but who knows if he wants more than just that to yet, but l doubt it. Sounds like a bit of a tool sorry to say.. Edited December 1, 2019 by chillii 1
beentheredonethat77 Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 its not even clever/ funny.... if hes going to be crass, at least make it funny and then he has a shot in the dark of appealing to women who melt at a good sense of humor. This d*ck totally failed on all accounts. I'm super laid back so wouldn't act offended, instead i'd respond with .. "ok..so, thats just weird " and then i'd stop messaging and back away from the weird banana boy. 1
chillii Posted December 2, 2019 Posted December 2, 2019 But l got a laugh out of it in one way, sorry ss, but l mean imagine how many chicks he's sent he's little good morning tester pic too and used the goodnight pic line with. Sad baby , just sadddd.
mortensorchid Posted December 2, 2019 Posted December 2, 2019 Did you want to go out on a date with this person or is it a hookup? Or are you not sure at this moment? Because that is certainly sexual in nature, but then again people have dirty minds so ... They will think what they think based on this, and it's confusing. I think the best thing is to text back to him asking what that is supposed to mean. Really. How he responds is what he means.
Author Springsummer Posted December 2, 2019 Author Posted December 2, 2019 He said your goodnight pic wasn't very good , Jezuz, nice, he was hoping for something more sexual.. Gosh, reading issue? He sent me a good night pic and said wasn't very good. No one will say that to someone except ask for trouble.
Author Springsummer Posted December 2, 2019 Author Posted December 2, 2019 (edited) Can you ask him what it means? That's what I would do. Because on one hand, it seems silly. If this is his way of planing a sexual seed in your mind, he has a lot to learn about game. It's such a lame attempt at trying to get sex, it leads me to believe he can't be that naive and it's likely harmless. I would message "sexy dirty mind??" See what he says... I thought about asking him, but then I thought I could get some thoughts from the folks here first. Exactly, how anyone could be that stupid? it was so out of the blue. Especially he was all tie and suit in his pics so seems a serious dude. I think tinder got the pic from the URLs, so when he used it, he may not be aware the true meaning? that's why I ask here if the meaning is universally understood? You are quite analytical:) Edited December 2, 2019 by Springsummer
Author Springsummer Posted December 2, 2019 Author Posted December 2, 2019 Did you want to go out on a date with this person or is it a hookup? Or are you not sure at this moment? . just casual and friendly chatting until this morning. how does hookup works? I am a very conservative person.
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