Lemontea Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 This question is for girls to answer, not guys. Most youtube cold approach (approaching someone u don't know) videos are guys approaching girls. In real life how would girls make a cold approach on guys, or how would girls get guys to cold approach them. I want girls of all ages and attractiveness to answer the question. And please be realistic, and don't exaggerate your courage and say u will pull up ur skirt so he can see ur butt cheek or something like that.
Garcon1986 Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 Sit down, talk, find out what he is interested in. If you want him to approach you, drop hints like smiles, open body language, etc.
princessaurora Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 When i was single, if I saw a guy I was potentially interested in, I would just look at him and when he looked back at me i'd smile and flirt a little. That was the point where they would usually come over and strike up a conversation. If I went out with a group of friends and we ran into other people they knew or brought them along and I found one of them attractive, I would just say something along the lines of " hey your friend is pretty cute" and then they would tell him or one of the mutual friends would tell him and he'd come over and start talking to me which usually resulted in setting up a date, unless they were already in a relationship.
basil67 Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 I’ve.never cold approached a guy. I’ve only ever approached guys where there’s already been a connection - such as a friend of a friend.
d0nnivain Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 I'd smile & say hi. My usual go to is to comment on something he's wearing, doing or watching. I got a BF once by insulting the sports team emblazoned on his t-shirt (I happened to be a fan of the rival team). If he's watching a game you can ask the score. If he's drinking something & it's not obvious what it is, you can ask about it. If it's raining or ridiculously hot you can comment on the weather. What you say doesn't matter as long as you break the ice. As for pulling up your skirt &/or flashing some sexy bits, that might get you laid but it will rarely get you a relationship
d0nnivain Posted December 1, 2019 Posted December 1, 2019 Lemontea is a man. Well that explains why Lemontea thinks flashing is an appropriate or often used pick up approach -- it's a porn based fantasy. 1
CAPSLOCK BANDIT Posted December 2, 2019 Posted December 2, 2019 When a woman cold approaches a man, the man often loses the sense of control that he desires over his environment. As men, we want to be in control and when we lose that control, our response is to regain control first, then read the situation after. As a woman, if you cold approach and do not have the intent of leaving that guy your number or something and just want to strike up conversation, you really should not bother... I mean, some dudes can fight their urge for control and actually speak with you, but more often than not, those dudes that can already have girlfriends and thus, do not have a feeling of losing control in the way that a single guy does. As men, we are built for rejection.. We thrive off of it. We can be rejected 30 times a night and press on to the 31st... Women are not built the same way... Rejection can be a life changing event for some women. Leave the approaching to the men, or even better, approach from online... Download a GPS based dating app and maybe youll get lucky and see him there, read his profile, yadda yadda.
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