Envy123 Posted November 26, 2019 Posted November 26, 2019 This is an addition to the "Apathy and attractiveness" thread a long time back. In my previous workplace, I was trying to chase a woman who I deemed to be "in my league" but she was completely unreceptive. After leaving the situation alone, I looked back and remembered that women in a higher league than me generally are the ones to show interest and romance happens from there. But women in or around my league have never shown interest in me at all. My private secondary had me chasing attractive girls and got rejected every single time. When I moved to a state secondary, I was "love pranked" one too many times and decided enough was enough. I did not think that the way I came across to girls was the problem, at the time - instead, I thought I was chasing girls way out of my league and maybe I'd have more success if I didn't focus so much on looks. So, the girls that I feel are out of my league, from then on, I have decided not to push romance onto them anymore. The girls who I deemed in my league, I continued to chase them like I did before. The result? The only romance I had have been from women who I deemed out of my league, never from the ones who I felt were in my league. I was confused for a while, but it eventually started to make sense. I must have come across as desperate to the girls who I deemed I had higher chances with, but confident to the girls who I deemed I had no chance with. I treated the first group in a neutral manner, got to know them and respected their boundaries - but the second group, I put them on a pedestal and acted needy. Love is a funny thing, sometimes.
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