joca Posted November 25, 2019 Posted November 25, 2019 Hi everyone I met a girl in Bali she is indonesian and works there as a bookeeper I met her a few weeks before i went on a dating site. Anyway long story short i visted Bali about 5 weeks ago and hungout and went out with her almost everynight and slept with her a couple of times. We got on really well when i got back home (Australia) we texted and video called almost every day. Then last week she sent me a good morning message i replied back with a couple of regular how you going? messages but the messages are not read and i called her a couple of days later and the phone rang out. We use Line app to communicate i dont have her number just her line id. She posts a lot of photos on her Line App Timeline these have stopped also at the same time. Its like she has just disappeared the only concern i have is if she has had an accident as a couple of weeks before i went to Bali she fell off her scooter and injured her leg. So its hard not knowing what is happening the only info i have on her is i know where she works but dont think i should communicate with her place of work. I will try calling her again in a few days time . My gut is telling me she has moved on but cannot think of any reason why I was going back to Bali in a couple of months time also
d0nnivain Posted November 25, 2019 Posted November 25, 2019 Since she has stopped reaching out under the circumstances you describe I think you can assume things are over or are at least casual. You are being ghosted. If she's still posting on her timeline you can assume she is not injured. If you want some more NSA sex, reach out again a few days before you return to Bali to see if he's DTF. Otherwise don't bother about her because she clearly doesn't care enough about you to be polite & specifically say it's over. 1
Author joca Posted November 28, 2019 Author Posted November 28, 2019 Thanks for the reply sorry i did not reply sooner, no she stopped posting on her Timeline at the same time so up to this time my messages are unread and there are no new posts on her Timeline . I tried calling her the other day the phone rang out but the peculiar thing with line and whatsapp even if the other person has their phone switched off it gives a ring tone that it is ringing. Yep if there if there is no good excuse or something happened to her i could not think why anyone would not have the decency to reply to say its over? Also my short relationship was not based on me giving her money she actually was a little offended when i tried to give her some during the time we were together.
smackie9 Posted November 28, 2019 Posted November 28, 2019 I would definitely be concerned. I don't think this is a ghosting situation. BUT how much do you really know this girl?
preraph Posted November 28, 2019 Posted November 28, 2019 Could she have simply blocked you on the timeline so you can't see what she's doing? 1
Author joca Posted November 29, 2019 Author Posted November 29, 2019 Could she have simply blocked you on the timeline so you can't see what she's doing? Hi yes I looked into the Line App you can block someone from seeing your timeline so from the 20th November the few messages i sent are unread and her timeline nothing has been added (of course i might be blocked) . I did send her an email yesterday as this is the only other contact detail i have no reply as yet. Just a small simple email to see if nothing has happened to her.
Author joca Posted November 29, 2019 Author Posted November 29, 2019 I would definitely be concerned. I don't think this is a ghosting situation. BUT how much do you really know this girl? I communicated daily before I went to Bali for a few weeks and A few weeks after I returned . Hung out together for quite a few days in Bali so i would say i know a lot about her . In saying that she could have many boyfriends that visit her like me . But no red flags on her Line app timeline its basically just me that likes her posts no other guys. The one thing that i think is strange is on her dating profile she has her Line ID on the dating site although she has not logged into this since meeting me in September but other guys could get in touch with her. I wish i had her phone number it was stupid on my part not asking for it.
ExpatInItaly Posted November 29, 2019 Posted November 29, 2019 If you don't even have the woman's number, you have to know this is not a serious dating prospect. I think it was a fling for her.
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