RecentChange Posted November 26, 2019 Posted November 26, 2019 Sorry if this is going to sound insensitive. But if a woman needs to pay someone to find her dates - well more likely than not "good looks" are not a quality she has. I know it's harsh, but it's just so easy for a good looking woman to find dates. OP, are you some sort of catch? Some ridiculously handsome and or successful man, the type women would pay money for a chance to even meet you? If you are - okay maybe you got on a list for the match marker of the highly sought after and successful. But if you are an average guy, I am willing to bet most of the women paying for this service are over weight, or have unfortunate looks, or something else making it really hard for them to meet normal men any other way. 1
alphamale Posted November 26, 2019 Posted November 26, 2019 I know it's harsh, but it's just so easy for a good looking woman to find dates. RC I can tell you from experience that single good looking professional and educated women have a really hard time finding a suitable match. If they want sex that is easy to find but if they are looking for a LTR or love it is much much harder 2
elaine567 Posted November 26, 2019 Posted November 26, 2019 RC I can tell you from experience that single good looking professional and educated women have a really hard time finding a suitable match. If they want sex that is easy to find but if they are looking for a LTR or love it is much much harder I agree. "Men" can get intimidated by the looks, the education and the money and these women are not looking for any old Tom Dick or Harry either. Also a lot of men are looking for Bimbos or women who are "inferior" to them, or women they can control. Such high powered women can tend to want to be the equal half of a power couple and some men cannot deal with that, nor can some men deal with a woman making more money. I can also see these women being inundated with guys who are looking for an easy life at her expense. Unless she can find a suitable guy in her immediate circle it can be a big problem. I can see why a matchmaker service may be needed. 1
lurker74 Posted November 26, 2019 Posted November 26, 2019 but lurker74 those thin women are in high demand (and they know it). are you talking size 00 thin or more like size 08 thin? I've dated a lot of thin girls and many of them think their sh*t doesn't smell. A few are ok but they are few and far between I don't mean to hijack the thread, but I suspect we're in different dating categories, alpha. I'm in my 40s and in that bracket (generally women age 32 to 40), the offerings of males is quite light. I won't say I get the pick of the litter but it's not hard to be near the top, both in OLD and in person. I don't need 00 and frankly that can be too thin...and to be clear, there's no set requirement, but generally size 4ish
SumGuy Posted November 26, 2019 Posted November 26, 2019 I don't mean to hijack the thread, but I suspect we're in different dating categories, alpha. I'm in my 40s and in that bracket (generally women age 32 to 40), the offerings of males is quite light. I won't say I get the pick of the litter but it's not hard to be near the top, both in OLD and in person. I don't need 00 and frankly that can be too thin...and to be clear, there's no set requirement, but generally size 4ish It certainly seems to be the case as well in ones 50s. I suspect at the age range 32-40 there are women that very much want to have a family, not so much at my age...as we already have them Thus getting the right man as soon as possible is important. Size 4! Way too skinny for me. Realize it has a lot to do with height and physical fitness, but if in shape size 6 is like my bottom, give me in shape and size 8-12 any day...heck even size 14 is fine. Not that I use this metric when dating, once had a discussion on it with some friends so looked it up...also I just know sizes from my past and current girlfriends so can buy them clothes. Have to say after the divorce consider matchmaker services as well, really just to save time and get straight to the good ones so to speak. Alas of the few I contacted none had the "good ones" as I define it and inevitably your income was a crucial piece of info.
RecentChange Posted November 26, 2019 Posted November 26, 2019 RC I can tell you from experience that single good looking professional and educated women have a really hard time finding a suitable match. If they want sex that is easy to find but if they are looking for a LTR or love it is much much harder I know a number of good looking, very successful women, and yes a handful of them struggle finding good matches. But a big part of that is because they do not want to settle - they are looking for a partner that is their equal, and is accommodating to their CEO life style etc. I am asking again - is the OP the kind of catch that women would pay to meet? Is he good looking, extremely successful, highly educated etc? Because the women I know who are still single, COULD settle, but they choose not to. They are looking for a man that is as top tier as they are. I could be wrong, perhaps the OP could star in the next "bachelor" or perhaps this agency is trying to find some men who would be willing to date women without pictures first - and are willing to give any women they are matched with a shot. Just isn't adding up to me.
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