chiquita Posted October 2, 2005 Posted October 2, 2005 Hello all, I am moving out from my common-law home this week. Both me and my spouse are on agreement, and there is no apparent resnetments. However, I am dreading the 'walk of shame'... you know, I am the one moving out (the apt. is his), so I have to walk thorugh the place with my boxes... I am sad and concerned. I want this to be as painless for both as possible. Any ideas? Thanks, Chiquita.
Art_Critic Posted October 2, 2005 Posted October 2, 2005 Don't think of it as a walk of shame.. That's crazy.. Think of it as a walk of regaining your sanity. Good Luck .. and don't let him work your guilt gland.. sounds like he already is doing it
Author chiquita Posted October 2, 2005 Author Posted October 2, 2005 Thanks for your kind words. I have been bunkering in my office the past two days, avoiding being in his apartment you know? I just wish I could move out when he is not around.... but apparently it won't happen. As for him making me go on guilt trips, you are right... I guess I have to avoid that at all costs.
westernxer Posted October 2, 2005 Posted October 2, 2005 Just close your eyes, lower your head, and say "go." Then don't look back.
JosiePosie Posted October 4, 2005 Posted October 4, 2005 Oh god, I just moved out of the apartment last week. It was hard but he respected my wishes of not being there when I moved out. I know what you are going through. The lease was under his name and the majority of the furniture was his (I made the unwise move of giving most of furniture away or throwing it out when I moved in with him). It's not an easy thing to do but before I left the apartment. I took one last look around, talked out loud about it being too bad we didn't work out, I said a short prayer for both of us and left. I miss our place. But what can you do when someone tells you that they want to be alone for awhile to figure things out.
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