Author NomiMalone Posted January 7, 2020 Author Posted January 7, 2020 Hi everyone, and Happy New Year I didn't want to be the person who disappears without an update. I am really grateful to all of you who've taken the time to comment on this thread. Thank you once again. So I have left the guy, but it took me longer than I planned. I went along to the coffee date I spoke about, roughly 2 weeks before christmas, with the view to see how it went. I didn't bring the gift, and was so glad I didn't, as he had no gift for me. He finally asked me what I was doing for Christmas, and didn't seem to want to chat about his relatives who were coming to holiday in our city for Christmas and NYE (I've since realised that was awkward for him because he didn't plan on introducing them to me, but even if things were going well, I wouldn't really have expected him to anyway, as it was still early days.) I was out of town for Christmas and hardly heard from him (a very generic Merry Christmas text on the evening of the 25th, nothing the 2 days before). When I got back, I received a text from him asking me if I "wanted a visitor?" with the wink emoji. I wrote a friendly text back saying, "new year, new me, I think I'm going to say no", and wished him all the best for the new year. 3 2
vla1120 Posted January 7, 2020 Posted January 7, 2020 Good for you, NomiMalone! My daughters go through these texting/communication issues with guys all the time and tell me about the "rules of texting" (like, he must text first, don't answer too quickly, yada, yada, yada.) If they don't abide by the rules, they're considered "too needy." I have told them, if someone is really interested in you, there will be no question, and you will NOT have to play by those silly rules (as long as you're not blowing up anyone's phone on the daily.) 1
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