Lifegoeson12 Posted November 19, 2019 Posted November 19, 2019 I broke up with my ex a few months ago, we didn't agree on certain topics. Anyway we stayed in touch the odd time but I kept my distance. I borrowed a piece of his clothing for a photoshoot. I totally forgot I had it, he messaged me after seeing my photos online and said it looked better on me and that I should keep it. I bumped into him a few days later and he asked me to go for a coffee, I agreed. I met him for a coffee, he brought me to a very romantic french coffee shop and as I was getting ready to leave asked me to help him pick out christmas presents for his niece before he returned home. We had a really nice time and I helped him pick some lovely presents. When we agreed to meet for a coffee it was more because I wouldn't see him until after Christmas as he is going home for 3 weeks, I figured we would get a coffee and then that would be it, he even said before we agreed to meet that his schedule was super busy. However, when we met he kept asking me to go for a drink during the week as well. after shopping, we said goodbye I gave him a hug and said goodbye. However, as he was leaving he blew me a kiss which he only used to do when we were together. I texted him later that evening and said it was really nice to see he was doing so well and that life is going good for him, he then replied saying it felt great to be friends again and that he felt the same about seeing me doing so well and that we should get a drink to celebrate our new chapter together. He dumped me in case anyone is wondering and after some time apart I figured I could be a friend to him and meet for the odd coffee yet now he seems to want to meet regularly. He texts me to see if we can speak during the week and to confirm if I can do drinks. I'm not sure if its because he thinks I'm dating someone. I never said I was but he follows my social media so probably picked up on that. I'm not dating anyone at the moment but I think he thinks I am. I mentioned I was considering moving into my stepfather's house as its currently empty and renting it and he said if I offered him a room he would take it. I wouldn't ever consider it but he brought it up. Is he testing the waters or is he just being friendly? I can't figure it out. We went from speaking once in a blue moon to him being very full-on. I will always have a soft spot for him but I won't be walked all over either. Is this a case of the grass wasn't actually greener? I didnt ask nor do I want to know but I think he might be seeing someone at the moment.
d0nnivain Posted November 19, 2019 Posted November 19, 2019 What difference does it make if he wants to get back together. You broke up with him because you had topics you didn't agree on. Have you suddenly come to an agreement on those subjects so you think you want to try again? I'd advise against living with an EX even platonically under the guise of separate rooms.
ExpatInItaly Posted November 19, 2019 Posted November 19, 2019 (edited) Why exactly did you two break up, OP? EDIT: I just read your previous threads about him. This has red flags all over it, girl. It sounds to me more like he's recently stopped seeing the girl he was dating and is sniffing around to see if you might still be available to him. I wouldn't trust his intentions here. Edited November 19, 2019 by ExpatInItaly 2
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