Would it make sense for a male to try to look younger to attract younger women?

[chillii]

Men look for youth in women they are attracted to, because evolutionarily speaking, this is a sign of fertility. Also, younger women are less likely to have children from a previous marriage.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Haaaa , always love the way people explain it away using evolution and fertility bs. Yaknow, while guys have been drooling over younger chicks forever, l'm so sure they're just thinking, oh , it's that damn evolution thing again, and she's so fertile ahhh, yeah, right.

Just call a spade a spade , you love young chicks because they're sexy as hell and a lot of fun, so what , nothing new there.

lf you already look young for your age then looking more younger won't matter because believe me l'm 50s and they still , God knows why , love me, can't figure it out but tis whatever it tis.

And no l;m not rich or drive flash cars or is it daddy issues or any of the other bs you'll be told, although my ex use to tell me l do just have this thing, whatever that is,l do look younger but not that young of course, a lot of young chicks just love older guys it's as simple as that l think, when l was 30s early 20s chicks by far had the most interest.

So you'll be right just as you are especially if you already look younger.

Edited November 19, 2019 by chillii

[spiderowl]

Are you planning to hide your age from these young women? If so, that's just a bit creepy.

 

If you do plan to hide your age then you are clearly not looking for a genuine relationship. Lying about your age is not the way to start a loving relationship.

[SumGuy]

Are you planning to hide your age from these young women? If so, that's just a bit creepy.

 

If you do plan to hide your age then you are clearly not looking for a genuine relationship. Lying about your age is not the way to start a loving relationship.

I don’t believe it is about a relationship at all, the jig will be up after a few dates. Stating it as 18+ to me also seems to be saying as young as you possibly can state and it still be legal.

[Highndry]

I don't care how young you look, at 36 years old there is no way in hell you're passing for 18.

[Highndry]

I don’t believe it is about a relationship at all, the jig will be up after a few dates. Stating it as 18+ to me also seems to be saying as young as you possibly can state and it still be legal.

 

 

Yeah, there's something weird about this.

[Interstellar]

You want to attract the young women? It sure helps to own a huge yacht and take it to Monaco and park it there during one of those film festivals.

[elaine567]

Young women do not generally like older guys.

People tend to like to be comfortable in their own peer group, the people who understand them best. Cultural references are important and whilst it can be fun to "educate" a different generation about "your" world, it can get old pretty fast.

Some women like to date "different" guys, some women like fancy cars and houses, some women have daddy issues, some women are just attracted to older guys, some woman are just 40yos in 20yo bodies, but many young women will be creeped out by the thought of an older guy. Who really wants to date their Dad?

 

Also some guys are just "sex on legs" or are charismatic chameleons and can fit in comfortably to any age group, so are attractive to to almost everyone no matter how old they are. Some older guys are "Peter Pans", they never grow up, they are always in touch with youth culture and can be accepted, but as many of such young women are looking for "maturity" or a "Dad" to support them, they don't really want to look after a "big kid".

 

IF your social skills are rubbish, you will not be attractive to most woman, young or old.

Trying to hide your real age is not going to help you one iota, most likely a older guy with poor social skills trying to appear younger to hit on young women will be a turn off to them.

 

A guy with poor social skills with or without a beard, is still just a guy with poor social skills...

Social skills are very very important in all aspects of your life, not only dating, Spend your time trying to improve them.

Until you do that, you will never be successful with women in any age group.

[fromheart]

I have very little social skills, so let me know. And by young, I mean 18+.

 

Well, you need social skills to date full stop. So the first thing to do would be to develop those. Start by just striking up conversations with women,without looking to date. Looking younger to date younger women is creepy and women will see right through this and regard it as pathetic.

 

Ignore older women who tell you that younger women are unsuitable, and make you out to be a pervert. Its completely natural to be attracted to women in their childbirth prime. These older women are coming from a place of jealousy and insecurity.

 

However, be respectful. Leave the 18 year olds alone, they are in their own world and just starting out in life.

 

As for how to attract women, you just do your thing and be yourself. Women grow up quicker than men.

 

10 to 12 years younger than you are now would be ideal, you'd be similar in terms of maturity and as she's in her childbirth years you have growing space without her needing to have kids tomorrow, due to her age.

Edited November 20, 2019 by fromheart