CloudyHead Posted November 11, 2019 Posted November 11, 2019 Two weeks ago today BF brought up breaking up after being together almost three years. He sent me a text about it knowing I just had a difficult weekend with my dad as my mom passed away in April. I did not try to change his mind or fight for the relationship as I was mentally and emotionally exhausted from the weekend. Well, I guess I'm going through the stages of a break up as I'm angry at him. I told him how I felt about some issues on Friday. Today (Sunday) I get an out of the blue text from BF wherein he tells me how I should feel and how he's really struggled to make this decision. Then he texted that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone right now. Very ironic as a friend of mine saw that BF has a profile on a dating site. She showed it to me a week ago. Ummm - you state you don't want to be in a relationship with anyone while you're looking for someone on a dating site?!
healing light Posted November 11, 2019 Posted November 11, 2019 Crappy behavior. I feel badly for the next woman, too, who is going to think he's emotionally available when he's actually on the rebound.
ExpatInItaly Posted November 11, 2019 Posted November 11, 2019 TThen he texted that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone right now. Very ironic as a friend of mine saw that BF has a profile on a dating site. She showed it to me a week ago. Ummm - you state you don't want to be in a relationship with anyone while you're looking for someone on a dating site?! This is his guilt talking. He knows he's looking around, and is trying to paint himself as the "good guy" to you in case you find out. It's his ego at work here.
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