Did I do the right thing?

[GTR King]

in August this Lovely girl with Asperges OCD Borderline Personality Disorder Anixety (Hates last min things always gotta plan week in advance) Messaged me on bumble (She lives about 1.2 Hours away) (Have very very Mild Autism Can't notice it that much)

 

She don't understand allot of things and not good at understanding things about love/dating etc so did try help her learn things etc.

 

Messaged for a little while on the App then gave her my number and she messaged me on my birthday.. We met up about a week later and had a good time Walk in a park then went for a drink (Place was half way between us)

 

Next date was Bowling and food (Same place as 2nd date)

3rd date was Punting/Food/Walk around Cambridge

 

Then we kept meeting up each weekend (Except for when she went to Wales on holiday For her bday) Bought her card/£20 Waterstones voucher (She been round mine twice and I been her few times)

 

Found out early on she was living with EX Boyfriend as he can't afford to move out till tenancy runs out...

 

She was very guarded at the start but did start to open up about past (Loads of bad things) she once suggested (Last month) I stay over (very last min) (EX Was away) but different beds (Me sleep in hers and she sleeps in ex's bed) I wasn't excepting Sex but said no as got plans.

 

the thing is I asked to be official boyfriend/Girlfriend beginning of October she said way to soon lets wait till Feb 2nd next year (She hates odd Numbers)..

 

But the last few weeks she has been moaning about her ex Boyfriend quite a lot and decided she gonna move out if he won't (Showed me a place that was about 1.45/2 hours away) (Bit to far for me) and Nearly everyday she keeps mentioning about Her AS BPD OCD Etc was meant to meet Yesterday for FA Cup football match (Last weekend she assumed we was boyfriend and girlfriend without asking me)

 

But she has said a few things that I didn't really like (Annoyed me) keeps trying to make it sound like I am Sam of Atypical (Netflix show) and makes out that I struggle with things etc E.G she thought I would really struggle with the football yesterday as large crowds etc (Well I have been going to football for the last 6 years with no problem)

 

Well I am doing really well with life got few friends go to the GYM and work full time etc I hardly struggle with anything.

 

I do like this girl as a person and really wanted it work with us but Ended things last Thursday as was Unhappy with the way she was the last few weeks etc

 

So did I do the right things??

Edited November 10, 2019 by GTR King

[ExpatInItaly]

Yes, you did the right thing.

 

This woman unfortunately has a boatload of issues you won't be able to help her with.

[smackie9]

YES! YOU DID!

She let's her disorders dictate her life, and it would have dictated yours too if you had continued.

[GTR King]

Thanks guys feel allot happier that I am free. Did want it to work but was unhappy when was with her etc.

 

Still gonna be civil and nice that’s about it

[GTR King]

update she has tried a few times to Text/Message me I have been short/Simple replies back to her and feel allot happier that I am single etc..