crazyguy123 Posted November 10, 2019 Posted November 10, 2019 So about last year I met this girl. Didn't really know who she was. We spoke a few times but they were just small talk. Lately, it's been getting a little bit weird. IF she post on her instagram story, i would ask a question about the place she is at and stuff like that. She would message me about my instagram stories too occasionally. She's been messaging me at late nights. She has even randomly brought up personal questions about me and stuff like that. She has only brought up the subject about her husband once because my friend and her husband work together. I even gave her my cell number because she does have some fitness questions and stuff like that. And she has never texted me once on it. Which is quite bizarre. She would call me cute and tell my friends i'm cute. She would say i'm an interesting person then emphasize that in a good way.... I just find this bizarre. if i cut the communication early, she would slide into my dms again Thoughts?
preraph Posted November 10, 2019 Posted November 10, 2019 She's probably have propositioned you by now if she was wanting to hook up. At least the married women I've known looking to cheat came right out and said it. She is probably just enjoying the attention.
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted November 10, 2019 Posted November 10, 2019 So about last year I met this girl. Didn't really know who she was. How did you meet her? Where?
carhill Posted November 10, 2019 Posted November 10, 2019 I have a fair amount of experience with MW's and tend to agree with preraph. It's an attention grab that she can run without compromising her phone. More serious/experiences MW's use burner phones and push for meets and sex. Not a problem if one doesn't mind the vagaries of it. I wouldn't consider it a dating opportunity though.
ExpatInItaly Posted November 10, 2019 Posted November 10, 2019 She is bored or lonely in her marriage and wants attention. She isn't going to use actual texting because it's too risky in terms of her husband seeing it. That's not bizarre for a seasoned cheater, really. It's not right, but it's not unusual. What do you hope to gain from communicating with her, OP?
smackie9 Posted November 10, 2019 Posted November 10, 2019 Emotional affair at best. You need to be shuttin er down my friend.
alphamale Posted November 10, 2019 Posted November 10, 2019 dude she doesn't give a **** about you, she's just looking for attention
kendahke Posted November 11, 2019 Posted November 11, 2019 She's been messaging me at late nights. She has even randomly brought up personal questions about me and stuff like that. She has only brought up the subject about her husband once because my friend and her husband work together. if this was your wife doing this and her boy-toy wrote us asking what he should do/what's going on, what would you want us to tell him? 1
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