depcharger Posted November 7, 2019 Posted November 7, 2019 Went on a date with a girl On the date we talked a lot She spoke a lot about how she gets off sexually Since then I've been sexting her Telling her what I would enjoy doing with her Recently her baby daddy ( who she claims she's done with aside from custody) Messaged me saying he saw my messages to her and he plans to out me to my company and courts? Showing what I've said to her 1. He did mention some stuff only she woulda known, could she have shown him my messages? 2. She hasn't blocked me and reacts / comments on my comments on her IG after I sexted her ..... So wtf ? Do I confront her about it or just cut her off immediately?
stillafool Posted November 7, 2019 Posted November 7, 2019 Yes confront her and then leave her alone.
Ruby Slippers Posted November 7, 2019 Posted November 7, 2019 You haven't done anything illegal, so this guy is full of crap. Obviously she's nowhere near done with him if he's looking at her phone.
d0nnivain Posted November 7, 2019 Posted November 7, 2019 Cut it off immediately. If you just go away the guy won't do anything else. He just wants you gone. She's too much trouble for after a 1st date only. She is either still with him or he's dangerous & stalking / hacking her. Whichever, you don't need this in your life. 1
Kitty Tantrum Posted November 7, 2019 Posted November 7, 2019 She's not done with him. Either that or he's way more trouble than you want in your life. Either way: don't walk, run. 1
RecentChange Posted November 7, 2019 Posted November 7, 2019 Unless you love drama and possible fist fights. RUN 1
schlumpy Posted November 8, 2019 Posted November 8, 2019 And remember next time not to leave a paper trail!
kendahke Posted November 8, 2019 Posted November 8, 2019 yeah, I don't think she and him are done. If he's supposed to be her ex, how is he looking at her text messages unless he was with her and got ahold of her phone when she wasn't looking or she showed it to him to make him jealous. Either way, messy messy messy. Leave her to him. She spoke a lot about how she gets off sexually Those who can, do. Those who can't, talk about it.
Lotsgoingon Posted November 8, 2019 Posted November 8, 2019 Run ... he's obviously getting access to her phone ... Run ... she's still connected to the ex. Now, there is a side possibility ... some exes are nasty and do put tracking programs (invisible) on the phones of their former partners. Very dastardly ... did you report this to her? Really, I'd run.
chillii Posted November 8, 2019 Posted November 8, 2019 Went on a date with a girl On the date we talked a lot She spoke a lot about how she gets off sexually What , she's tellin you how she gets off on your first meet up ? Nice girl.
girlinNYC Posted November 8, 2019 Posted November 8, 2019 More trouble and baggage than what its worth. Run while you can.
Rockdad Posted November 8, 2019 Posted November 8, 2019 Spyware on a cell phone is certainly not new you know. If the guy is threatening to attempt causing you trouble at your job what else might he do. Think with your big head on this one I say. 1
smackie9 Posted November 8, 2019 Posted November 8, 2019 Cut her off immediately and peace will be with you.
vv3469802 Posted November 12, 2019 Posted November 12, 2019 Your next actions have depend of her knowledges about this mishap. If she knows about that and she still calm - move on. If she doesn't - try to ask her how her ex get access to messages.
OatsAndHall Posted November 12, 2019 Posted November 12, 2019 Block her number and move on. Nothing good will come of this and I'm speaking from experience. I was married to a woman for five years who's ex raised all kinds of hell from the very beginning. It's not worth it. I was seeing a woman for a little while who let it slip that her ex husband of seven years had run off her previous boyfriend. I didn't wait around to deal with that crap; I tapped out quickly and quietly. She didn't get me all of the details but that little bit of info was enough to send me running.
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