ExpatInItaly Posted November 11, 2019 Posted November 11, 2019 He just text and told me he hates me You need to block him. This is getting absurd and will only keep you hooked on a guy there's no future with.
stillafool Posted November 11, 2019 Posted November 11, 2019 he wants nothing to do with me and abuses me in text messages and blocks me? How is THAT fair? Pot kettle black? How can he reject me let me go then behave like this? Why is it all down on me now for moving on after I was the one rejected, am i not allowed have a life too? First off if he rejected and abused you, told you to move on, why would he then be allowed to abuse you through text and blocking you? You should never be contacting him again in the first place for this to happen. You are supposed to be moving on and no longer in contact with him. You need to ask yourself why do you allow this man access to you in the first place.
stillafool Posted November 11, 2019 Posted November 11, 2019 He also told me he now wants to go on dates with other women and sleep with them. He told me he didnt want a relationship with anyone. I told him he cant have his cake and eat it but he has made me feel so bad about speaking to this other guy He can have his cake, pie and donuts for all you should care. You shouldn't be around to watch what he eats. Is this the last man in your town or something? Why can't you let him go live his life, block him and move on to another man?
stillafool Posted November 11, 2019 Posted November 11, 2019 He just text and told me he hates me Well at least now you know how he really feels. Did you block him?
smackie9 Posted November 11, 2019 Posted November 11, 2019 He just text and told me he hates me Like I said he's a butt hurt buffoon. I suspect he's a bit of a narcissist. 1
Author Equave111 Posted November 11, 2019 Author Posted November 11, 2019 I didnt reply, I think space to calm down is what is needed right now. I know a lot of you wont approve of this question but does anyone think in time if he calms down that he may come back and go back to being friends?
ExpatInItaly Posted November 11, 2019 Posted November 11, 2019 but does anyone think in time if he calms down that he may come back and go back to being friends? Eh, doubtful. You two might get back on speaking terms at some point, sure. However, I don't think a genuine friendship is going to happen. This type of hostility tends to leave its mark, rendering a real friendship an unlikely prospect in the future. And honestly, would you want to be friends with him when he starts dating someone else someday? Sometimes it really is better to just let go and move on.
stillafool Posted November 12, 2019 Posted November 12, 2019 I didnt reply, I think space to calm down is what is needed right now. I know a lot of you wont approve of this question but does anyone think in time if he calms down that he may come back and go back to being friends? He was never your friend.
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