MountainGirl111 Posted November 4, 2019 Posted November 4, 2019 (edited) One time me and my boyfriend went out dancing at a regional bar. We were sitting out one dance and just looking on when two young beautiful girls came walking up to us and addressed my boyfriend. One of the girls asked my boyfriend, "Do you think my friend is pretty?" (say what?!?) My boyfriend was speechless. If he said "yes", he was worried how I would take it. If he said "No" he might offend the girl. So, he looked at me as if to ask, "How am I supposed to answer that?" The fact of the matter was she indeed was pretty! But he didn't know what to say and felt very awkward. So, I just smiled, and "I think she's pretty!" (well, I DID think she was pretty. She was pretty. Why not be honest?) Well, then the two girls didn't know how act after I said that and they both slunk off to bug someone else. hahahaha Boyfriend said, "Let's get outta here." I agreed, and we left. Went home and a nice time after that. Edited November 4, 2019 by MountainGirl111 1
stillafool Posted November 4, 2019 Posted November 4, 2019 You handled those girls perfectly. What a pair of rude idiots.
rainbow12 Posted November 4, 2019 Posted November 4, 2019 To my knowledge she doesn’t have a boyfriend. I haven’t seen her ever when we go to church on Sundays but as far as Weds. she doesn’t bring anyone If he's reassured you about not being interested in this girl because he's so romantically involved with you then you got no choice but to take his word for it, Only time will tell if he's truthful or not. Just relax and be yourself because what passes you by weren't meant for you in the beginning.
MountainGirl111 Posted November 4, 2019 Posted November 4, 2019 You handled those girls perfectly. What a pair of rude idiots. I know, right? Me and the BF said, this is stupid, let's not waste one more minute here....
mortensorchid Posted November 5, 2019 Posted November 5, 2019 I suppose I am a little clueless when it comes to such things, maybe I am too trusting of others, but are you the type of person who thinks every woman he comes in contact with is after him or just this woman? I remember years ago when I was working a customer service job (doing ER physician billing), sometimes I would call a person back if we had to do research on the question. Sometimes the wife would answer (back in the days of landline phones in the home) and I would ask to speak to the man who called. She'd instantly put up a confrontational voice and ask who's calling, I said my name was (name) I am calling from (company) returning his call from last week about an ER physician bill for (family member). She'd instantly relax when she realized it was business. But do you think it's all women or just this woman we're talking about?
MountainGirl111 Posted November 5, 2019 Posted November 5, 2019 (edited) I suppose I am a little clueless when it comes to such things, maybe I am too trusting of others, but are you the type of person who thinks every woman he comes in contact with is after him or just this woman? I remember years ago when I was working a customer service job (doing ER physician billing), sometimes I would call a person back if we had to do research on the question. Sometimes the wife would answer (back in the days of landline phones in the home) and I would ask to speak to the man who called. She'd instantly put up a confrontational voice and ask who's calling, I said my name was (name) I am calling from (company) returning his call from last week about an ER physician bill for (family member). She'd instantly relax when she realized it was business. But do you think it's all women or just this woman we're talking about? I know what you mean, Mortens. Some women look upon any other woman, even if it's just an acquaintance or a business call as competition. It can seem nuts.... But upon closer inspection....well....there is a reason for every human behavior. Some people have just been burned in the past. Some people don't like how they measure up when they measure themselves up.... Sadly, some people really need to just stop "competing"....as there is nothing to compete FOR...I get along a lot better with other women who are also confident...that drive to compete is just not there..and it's more like a sister hood...it's the ones who feel "inferior" who are usually the most catty and resentful. There was a gal that I used to work with and I just couldn't figure out why she said some of the things she said to me...I finally pulled her aside one day and said, "Okay out with it. Why did you talk to me like that?" Truth came out she thought I thought I was better than her and nothing she did was good enough for me....whoa.... That wasn't close to the truth at all....yes I was high achieving in that job...yes I strove for as much perfection as possible...but it went with the nature of the beast....there was a LOT on the line...I had NO IDEA she perceived me that way....but I knew something was up because of how she talked to me...at least she was finally honest about it....but I had to pull it out of her....she felt I intimidated her...when actually she just felt inferior....she was also dealing with some stress to do with her kids ...and things weren't good on the home front... Edited November 5, 2019 by MountainGirl111
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