Author Piddy Posted November 9, 2019 Author Posted November 9, 2019 (edited) I agree. The OP's behavior is very frightening. "Very frightening?????" Just a tad over the top IMO. You can call it what you want, but a lot of people do it. Do you think a background check is frightening? Done all the time by potential employers. Are they stalkers? All I did was look at info that was in the public domain. If you looked up what your neighbors paid for their house (which anyone can do) is that behavior frightening? If you were curious if someone was still alive and searched public records, is that behavior frightening? If someone was married, had children etc.? All public info. Again, all the info I found was in the public domain and free. I was just curious how one of my ex girlfriends life had turned out. Curiosity is not always sinister. Sometimes it's just curiosity. Edited November 9, 2019 by Piddy
FMW Posted November 9, 2019 Posted November 9, 2019 OP you seem to have worked your way through this situation - you began by saying you couldn't stop thinking about her, and now you're just reminiscing about all the women in your past and saying it's normal and no big deal. So enjoy the memories. To keep things in perspective, maybe just think about how you would feel about your wife googling and thinking about all her exes. We all think of our past from time to time, just don't let it get out of hand.
Author Piddy Posted November 9, 2019 Author Posted November 9, 2019 (edited) OP you seem to have worked your way through this situation - you began by saying you couldn't stop thinking about her, and now you're just reminiscing about all the women in your past and saying it's normal and no big deal. So enjoy the memories. To keep things in perspective, maybe just think about how you would feel about your wife googling and thinking about all her exes. We all think of our past from time to time, just don't let it get out of hand. A little off the mark, but whatever. Would have no problem with my wife Googling her ex boyfriends. She never had a traumatic breakup though. So odds are she'd wouldn't have the same reaction my brain did. I never knew you couldn't control your thoughts. It really is eye opening. But again, this isn't brain cancer. My golf game has suffered and that's what's important. Edited November 9, 2019 by Piddy
Author Piddy Posted November 10, 2019 Author Posted November 10, 2019 Typo. My golf game HAS NOT suffered. Shot a 74 yesterday.
nospam99 Posted November 10, 2019 Posted November 10, 2019 Typo. My golf game HAS NOT suffered. Shot a 74 yesterday. Was that on the front nine or the back nine? (BAD nospam! )
Author Piddy Posted November 10, 2019 Author Posted November 10, 2019 Was that on the front nine or the back nine? (BAD nospam! ) Good one..... 1 over (36) on the front and a 2 over (38) on the back for a nice 3 over par (71) 74.
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