aklost101 Posted October 1, 2005 Posted October 1, 2005 hi all, i'm just looking for an opinion of whether or not i'm overreacting... i have a sig other of almost 2 1/2 years, we split up a few weeks ago b/c i felt he wasn't giving me enough consideration (not calling when he said he would, being late, never paying), etc. but he said he'd change and was kinda on "probation" with me or whatever. i've had a really tough week w/ a family member dying and when i called him to tell him, he came right over, and promptly fell asleep while i was talking to him. i have no desire to ever see him again and i feel that he's never going to grow up and put me first if he can't do it especially when i need him to. am i overreacting? or am i right in feeling this way?
fusangite Posted October 1, 2005 Posted October 1, 2005 Who cares if you're over-reacting to this latest incident!? You've had 30 months to form these opinions. I am curious, though: rationality aside, how do you feel about him on the whole emotional/attraction dimension these days?
elijahBailey Posted October 1, 2005 Posted October 1, 2005 If he's what you said he is, then I think you're certainly not overreacting. But he can't be like this for all of the 2 1/2 years. Otherwise, you wouldn't have gone out with him and stuck with him this long.
slubberdegullion Posted October 1, 2005 Posted October 1, 2005 ... i feel that he's never going to grow up and put me first... Just curious about something: Do you put him first? It's possible that he fell asleep because he was tired or not feeling well. But he did come right over when you called. Seems to me that a little grace is in order. Given the fact that you have 2 1/2 years together already, I think maybe a good long honest talk between you is in order.
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