Leojax Posted October 31, 2019 Posted October 31, 2019 So she posted some stupid zodiac thing about her sign being protective when they’re in love. Okay whatever, but then she added how if she cooks/wants to cook for you she’s in love bc she rarely cooks for herself. She’s cooked for me once and was going to do it another time but she had to work at the last minute so couldn’t. Is she dropping a hint that she loves me or am I looking too much into it? Tl;dr is she dropping a hint about love? We’re both 24 by the way.
d0nnivain Posted October 31, 2019 Posted October 31, 2019 Maybe. I don't know that she's posting those things on her social media so that you get the hint so much as she's expressing her state of mind. I wouldn't take anything on line too seriously. Rather when analyzing your relationship, focus on her words & behavior in real life when you are together. Her cooking for you is definitely a good sign, going back to the old adage: the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. She is showing you her nurturing / caretaking side. You can offer a more subtle declaration "I really like you" next time you see her & gage her response. 1
PRW Posted October 31, 2019 Posted October 31, 2019 Are you going to stay with her and be loyal, or are you going to get all twisted up over petty little things like that? I can tell you that at 24 she is going to be experiencing changes in herself where she stops hunting for the "cute boy" like a schoolgirl, and starts looking for the "reliable man" like a woman, to take her into her future. 1
alphamale Posted October 31, 2019 Posted October 31, 2019 yea, in general if a female cooks or bakes for a man it is a good sign. this assumes that the food is edible 3
d0nnivain Posted October 31, 2019 Posted October 31, 2019 this assumes that the food is edible Hey! I used to be a really bad cook but if I made the effort, my heart was in the right place even if the food was practically inedible. My father used to joke that I treated him like a god, by routinely providing him with burnt offerings. Look at the effort not the result. You can always order out or cook yourself. You can't always find a good partner to love. 1
Gaeta Posted October 31, 2019 Posted October 31, 2019 By the tone of your writing you don't seem thrilled she might be in love?
Author Leojax Posted October 31, 2019 Author Posted October 31, 2019 By the tone of your writing you don't seem thrilled she might be in love? I am but I don’t want to get my hopes up. Don’t want to think she is based off her post and she’s not.
smackie9 Posted October 31, 2019 Posted October 31, 2019 How about this....stop trying to read into something and just let things happen.
Gaeta Posted October 31, 2019 Posted October 31, 2019 I agree to ignore what she puts on social media about zodiac signs and cooking and read into her words and body language when you're together. 2
Author Leojax Posted October 31, 2019 Author Posted October 31, 2019 I agree to ignore what she puts on social media about zodiac signs and cooking and read into her words and body language when you're together. We’ve talked about kids and her body language is positive. Since she’s talking about being in love and her cooking is an indicator I took it as her dropping a hint.
Lotsgoingon Posted October 31, 2019 Posted October 31, 2019 The problem is ... if you are going to have a relationship with some lasting power ... it can't be that you figure out someone loves you based on some riddle of a hint. Pay attention to how she is with you! ...and pay attention to what you feel when with her. That's your only relevant data.
Author Leojax Posted October 31, 2019 Author Posted October 31, 2019 The problem is ... if you are going to have a relationship with some lasting power ... it can't be that you figure out someone loves you based on some riddle of a hint. Pay attention to how she is with you! ...and pay attention to what you feel when with her. That's your only relevant data. I feel it when she’s with me but we just haven’t said. I was hoping this was her indirect way to nudge me to say it.
Gaeta Posted October 31, 2019 Posted October 31, 2019 If you feel the same toward her than be brave and be the first to say it. Majority of women want to hear it first. 2
preraph Posted October 31, 2019 Posted October 31, 2019 To me, she sounds like a flake who is desperate to find something to text about so she knows what you're doing 24/7.
kendahke Posted October 31, 2019 Posted October 31, 2019 Hard to say without knowing her. Are you adverse to her feeling this way about you? How do you feel about her?
FMW Posted October 31, 2019 Posted October 31, 2019 Or approach it lightly/jokingly by saying "Hey I saw your post about cooking. Does that mean you love me?" But honestly, I agree with the advice to just see how things go. Show her your feelings and watch how she shows you hers. The words will come if the feeling is there.
preraph Posted October 31, 2019 Posted October 31, 2019 How long you been together? If it's at least a few months, you could either tell her or you could just show her, like buying her a silver or gold plated necklace with a heart or something like that.
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