She left me in a bar alone?

[winny]

Text read Good morning darling my phone died yesterday and when you went to the bathroom I went outside to get fresh air, she came back in and sat and didn't feel good. she looked for me but didn't see me and didn't know what to do and left.

 

I called Bull****! on her story this chick is definitely crazy or hiding something. I pretty much told her she's a liar lol If she even wants to even see me again it better be a invite to her bed because I'm not wasting a second on the psycho.

 

maybe her period started unexpectedly and she left....

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[Despr8]

Marc, if you change his punctuation to:

 

I pretty much told her she's a liar lol. (add full stop and new paragraph)

 

If she even wants to even see me again it better be a invite to her bed because I'm not wasting a second on the psycho.

 

Then it reads as the OP intended it to read. But as it stands, I would have read it just like you did.

 

 

Bingo! anyway lock it up Mods. Already vented lol Besides it's definitely a lost cause.

 

 

If you are hitting her with the relationship vibe on the 3rd date or the 1st or 2nd date,...that is why she ran.

 

Uh no, i'm mostly fun and passionate if i'm into you. Besides I dont overthink things. No point! I cant help peoples dumb stuff.

 

 

I've been on dates where I was catfished! and wasnt a Ahole about it. Told them out the gate this isnt happening and if you wanna have a beer im koo with that. because i'm already there, i'll take good convo.

 

 

Leaving last second on the 3rd date while I pee is F'ed up on any part! For all I know shes married or some other stuff that doesn't involve me.

[TheFinalWord]

Geez dude, that was so rude of her! I'm telling you, one thing you find out in the dating world is that there are some rude, heartless people out there.

 

To think she texted like nothing happened? What does she think you are, an idiot? Her phone died and she couldn't find you LOL Now that's a new one bro. Oh, she couldn't tell a waiter or leave you a note? Her phone died? We all know women LIVE on their phones 24/7. Her battery didn't die. That excuse was more insulting than if she had contacted you and admitted what she did was heartless, apologize, and ask for another chance.

 

I've had girls ghost, then try to text months later like nothing happened. I don't respond. One girl ghosted on me, then tried contacting me. Each time I ignored her, she would try from some other means: e-mailing, then texting, then messaging me on multiple social media apps. I never replied. The reason? She ghosted but didn't apologize. If she had apologized, I might have at least heard her out. But pretending like nothing happened? Immature and a person that can't admit when they're wrong is going to be problems later on. She showed her true colors and thankfully I didn't spend a dime.

 

One thing you can walk away with, is no one will ever work with a person like this. The one character trait you can't have to be successful in relationships is selfishness. Relationships are about giving. Her actions are the behavior of an inherently selfish person. It won't work for her with anyone.

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[Despr8]

The world is going backwards and I got a theory its to have us from not populating lol. Just had a delightful convo with a older lady on tinder how she cheats on her husband with ED. When I was younger I'd probably go for it but now older I know it's it wrong and karma will hit one day. But I could be completely wrong and this lady will be happy 4ever taking random men, who knows. Dating now is more about finding what baggage, demons, addictions or just bullSh** you're dealing with. I try to be hopeful and not generalize but the second I see someone older who's single, colored hair, into poly, burningman, yoga and is into open relationships I start losing hope. I dont know how we became so diluted that anyone is replaceable at any moment. I could sound insensitive when I say only way I'll meet up again if it's in bed. But thats the sad part, i've crossed her off as unstable and I wouldn't pursue anything meaningful with someone who treats anyone like that. She'll get the d and nothing more. Seeing myself becoming a product of my environment.

 

Last month went on a date with this beautiful Russian model I met at the gym. Thought she was a sweet person until the second date lol. I got the flu on the day we were suppose to hang. Texted her saying hey I'm not feeling too good might be getting sick, taking a nap and see if im feeling better. Overslept and woke up to my phone blowing up getting yelled at like you ruined my night and you're a liar blah blah blah. Pretty much saw her crazy and easily told her to F off and find some other monkey to entertain her.

 

Yesterday when I wrote this thread I was Tipsy AF and butthurt because I just didnt understand how someone can do that. I can be a Ahole and a bit of a pig but i'm upfront.Doesnt matter on to the next person.

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[winny]

I seriously cannot blame the russian model. Men treat women like crap and blow them off few mins before dates. She might have had many such experiences and thats why she acted out. You want her to give you the benefit of doubt and yet you did not do the same for her... why should she believe a guy who is blowing her off with a lame sounding excuse? You should have called her instead of sending just a text about the flu. Then she would have believed you. Enough now with victim playing. Move on. Most of us have hard worse. Read my threads from 2013 lol

[basil67]

We all know women LIVE on their phones 24/7. Her battery didn't die. That excuse was more insulting than if she had contacted you and admitted what she did was heartless, apologize, and ask for another chance.

 

I don't know what's going on with this woman, but dude....exaggerate much? I've just realised that my phone was on silent and in the bottom of my purse for the last 14 hours and I missed a heap of messages from friends. And guess what, I'm a woman.