She left me in a bar alone?

[Despr8]

Met this woman recently and the text were weak. (1 hour relies) But anyway we saw each other a few times and on our 3rd date after a spectacular Broadway show we went to a bar. I used the bathroom and she just left? I thought I was going crazy but she just left? Tons of kisses and sex talk and good convo and I got ditched. It was a great date until I was just left looking for her like a lost puppy. WTF HAPPENED?

 

I feel horrible just left after soo much effort and I literally never had any body just leave last minute like that.

[mark clemson]

Just didn't like you. Or just a B*TCH. Maybe both.

[winny]

Don't take it so hard.

[Despr8]

Just didn't like you. Or just a B*TCH. Maybe both.

 

Really sucks, ive never experienced something like this. I spent time, effort and cash on impressing a woman to be left literally at the end of the date. I mean I've gotten catfished and still wasn't a ******* and stuck around.

 

 

 

Just happened at a time where I was hopeful and trying to find my partner. Nothing seems to work out and this really is the icing on the cake

[winny]

Really sucks, ive never experienced something like this. I spent time, effort and cash on impressing a woman to be left literally at the end of the date. I mean I've gotten catfished and still wasn't a ******* and stuck around.

 

 

 

Just happened at a time where I was hopeful and trying to find my partner. Nothing seems to work out and this really is the icing on the cake

 

If this makes you feel anything better... I spent $100 on cab rides to go see a guy at a mall and he went to the restroom after speaking to me for 15 mins and never came back........... I waited for 20 mins and left.

 

Some people have no decency. Don't beat yourself up for the selfishness of others.

[Despr8]

If this makes you feel anything better... I spent $100 on cab rides to go see a guy at a mall and he went to the restroom after speaking to me for 15 mins and never came back........... I waited for 20 mins and left.

 

Some people have no decency. Don't beat yourself up for the selfishness of others.

 

Not really

 

3 weeks oc slow text 3 dates. Dinner, drinks, and a show. I mean we made out all over the place. I put in extra effort because she was a upper class clothing designer from money. So low class to even lead my ass on. Even in horrible dates I made the best of it and was polite enough to tell the girl "hey ummm no thanks"

 

Feel like hopeless tool just trying for nothing

 

Going Mgtow lol

[Gretchen12]

OP you met her on a dating site? i think some people on dating sites have mental issues. Seriously anyone can sign up.

[Londy]

A person who disappears mid date is often called "rude" or "mentally unstable" but the truth is they're probably just pissed off at wasting their time with someone who has been deceptive in their dating site profile pictures, descriptions, or both. We want to believe that we don't look any different than we did 10 years and 50 lbs ago- but it simply isn't true.

[Gretchen12]

But Londy, this was the 3rd date and they've been making out.

[alphamale]

dude, lesson learned, just move on

[Gaeta]

Once l left in the middle of a date. I pretended going to washroom and left. I did it after realizing the guy was sniffing coke during his washroom visits.

 

Maybe she left because she realized something about you that in her eyes didn't deserve a good bye.

[rightondude]

WTF HAPPENED?.

 

Well have you asked her that yet?

[basil67]

Really sucks, ive never experienced something like this. I spent time, effort and cash on impressing a woman to be left literally at the end of the date.

 

I think your approach was wrong. You should be connecting with her as your natural self, not "impressing" her. While leaving you stranded was a horrible move, I can't help but wonder if she thought you were fake.

[The Outlaw]

She sounds horrible, but in all honesty, you really didn't miss anything.

[Trail Blazer]

On the surface that seems very callous. I guess all you can do is reflect on your interactions and try to figure out if there's anything you did. She may just be heartless b!tch, but it does seem odd that she'd up and go in the middle of a third date.

[Ruby Slippers]

That is extremely rude. I can't even imagine treating someone so badly. I'm sorry that happened to you.

[preraph]

I bet it was the sex talk. She probably started thinking it was creepy.

[major_merrick]

I don't think she found it creepy. But I think the mistake was to leave even to go to the bathroom. You had her going with the kisses and sex talk, but when she got a break for a minute the momentum dropped. She second-guessed herself and ran. She probably wasn't that into you in the first place (weak texts and all) but you had enough energy about you that she responded in your presence.

 

Women are weird and flaky like that, especially the latest generation. I'll grant that the girl-on-girl game is a bit different, but in my experience once you're getting a response you have to keep the pressure on all the way to the edge of the bed. If that's your goal. If a LTR is your goal, flakes are worthless for that, and her leaving did you a favor.

[schlumpy]

I feel horrible just left after soo much effort and I literally never had any body just leave last minute like that.

 

This is a very good time to develop a sense of humor. It makes things like this so much easier to get over.

 

It could be that she spotted someone who knew her and could make her life difficult if it were reported she was out on a date so she hit the door like a broken field runner.

 

Why assume it was about you? How much do you know about her that you can exclude outside entanglements?

[mortensorchid]

I've been ditched at the end of a date or in the middle of it. Just decide that it wasn't meant to be and move on.

[Despr8]

Well have you asked her that yet?

 

 

Well here's the update LOL

 

 

I got a text this morning like nothing happened?

 

 

 

Take into consideration I went to take a piss so 5 minutes tops.

 

 

Text read Good morning darling my phone died yesterday and when you went to the bathroom I went outside to get fresh air, she came back in and sat and didn't feel good. she looked for me but didn't see me and didn't know what to do and left.

 

 

I called Bull****! on her story this chick is definitely crazy or hiding something. I pretty much told her she's a liar lol If she even wants to even see me again it better be a invite to her bed because I'm not wasting a second on the psycho.

[Despr8]

Oh wow... i’m not saying her leaving like that is right. But to have any man demand sex to see him again would make me seriously block him forever.

 

No one, and I mean no one should ever demand sex!

 

 

are you nuts I didn't say that part. But seriously though not wasting anytime. Unless obviously there's sex.

[Marc878]

I called Bull****! on her story this chick is definitely crazy or hiding something. I pretty much told her she's a liar lol If she even wants to even see me again it better be a invite to her bed because I'm not wasting a second on the psycho.

 

That's what you wrote.

[PRW]

Just happened at a time where I was hopeful and trying to find my partner.

 

 

If you are hitting her with the relationship vibe on the 3rd date or the 1st or 2nd date,...that is why she ran.

[basil67]

Marc, if you change his punctuation to:

 

I pretty much told her she's a liar lol. (add full stop and new paragraph)

 

If she even wants to even see me again it better be a invite to her bed because I'm not wasting a second on the psycho.

 

Then it reads as the OP intended it to read. But as it stands, I would have read it just like you did.