simpleman Posted September 30, 2005 Posted September 30, 2005 Hi all, I'm a little hot (in temper) at the moment because I feel like my gf is walking all over me. Let me create the setting, she lives in Puerto Rico, 19, and we met through my ex-gf (another LDR). We have never met in person but we talk on the phone everyday and occassionally on the computer (voice with webcam). I am in Texas, 20, and have only been a limited number of relationships all LDR. ~ poor me ~ Lately, she has been "ditching" me for another guy at her school. She considers this a close friend. Once she even liked him. Recently, he told her that he liked her... ever since then she has been spending her afternoons with him when she would normally spend them on the phone with me. Yes, this sounds very very selfish of me. In the past, she would just leave me on the phone when she was around her friends, but now she says that she would be distracted if between him and me if I were on the phone... She brings up my ex-gf (her friend) and how she did the same to me. She doesn't want to be like my ex-gf. I have no problem with her talking with this guy... The problem is, she continues to insist that I am mad at her for spending time with him. Just a few minutes ago she said "Don't worry, you are still more important to me than him." In response I was like "Him, who?" because she never mentioned she was talking to him; rather, she had told me earlier she was talking with her next door neighbor(female). Anyways, I do feel mad because she keeps insisting that I am jealous and mad about her talking with a guy that likes her... I keep insisting that I am not. She is creating the doubt in my mind. I do feel something special with this girl. I enjoy every minute I am with her, but this guy from school has just got her cellphone number, which could mean that he could suck up our talk time. I guess this has me a little worried... What should I do? Is she just walking all over me? I know I feel like I am letting her. Thanks for your time.
kscholze Posted September 30, 2005 Posted September 30, 2005 you have never met? have you guys said to eachother that you are BF/GF?
Author simpleman Posted September 30, 2005 Author Posted September 30, 2005 Yes, we consider eachother boyfriend and girlfriend. Odd concept. We also say "I love you" and share everything with eachother. Does this seem silly? To some, Yes... To us, No. Update, she just called me saying "Why didn't you call me and say you loved me?" On the phone I said "I love you very much. I'm sorry for not calling you and saying it. I just didn't want to interrupt your convo (ouch -- Yes, I can bite a little)." In the previous, conversations she pushes me off the phone; has even hanged up on me (saying "Bye bye" --- click). Frankly, I feel like why should I be the one that calls her to say I love her after she hangs up on me to go talk with some other guy. She says she just needs to hear me say those words. I asked her if she had been crying, she said she had been tearing up.
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