Love2015 Posted October 21, 2019 Posted October 21, 2019 I am taking a break from dating and since have been working on healing, exercising,losing boundaries. I feel much much better. However, yesterday. Ghost from the past...2018 decided to text me. He wanted to come over ...most probably a booty call. But the weird thin is we had not had sex back in the day and he used to sleep over! Anyways, I said no and that was the end of it. Today I haven't heard from him. Being single and happy with yourself is so important because then you choose what's best. This time I chose not to cave to the stupidity of thinking he cares ..when he texts past 10 p.m....i clearly could see it was for a hook up. 1
vv3469802 Posted October 21, 2019 Posted October 21, 2019 You haven't to allow your ghost to turn into somebody more meaningful.
GeorgiaPeach1 Posted October 21, 2019 Posted October 21, 2019 Awesome! Next time, don't even respond. 1
hippychick3 Posted October 21, 2019 Posted October 21, 2019 Good for you! As another poster said, do not respond at all if he texts again.
smackie9 Posted October 22, 2019 Posted October 22, 2019 next step is to never leave the door open so that they can contact you again. Block/delete, repeat when needed.
Malin889 Posted October 22, 2019 Posted October 22, 2019 I am taking a break from dating and since have been working on healing, exercising,losing boundaries. I feel much much better. However, yesterday. Ghost from the past...2018 decided to text me. He wanted to come over ...most probably a booty call. But the weird thin is we had not had sex back in the day and he used to sleep over! Anyways, I said no and that was the end of it. Today I haven't heard from him. Being single and happy with yourself is so important because then you choose what's best. This time I chose not to cave to the stupidity of thinking he cares ..when he texts past 10 p.m....i clearly could see it was for a hook up. Good for you! He should not be calling you that late. Bye bye dude!
Redhead14 Posted October 22, 2019 Posted October 22, 2019 Well, he's probably having a "dry spell" and a little desperate if he's coming back around after so long. He's probably hoping you'll be in the same boat and desperate enough to go for it. You aren't. Good on you. I don't think it's fair to characterize him as a bastard as another poster said or a bad guy though. Enough women would have said yes but that doesn't make them victims or him a bad guy.
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