d0nnivain Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 I’m also thinking that this is a test were I can show Amy that she needs to chase me a bit. I’m not going to be all around her and instead I’m going to try to spend as much time as possible talking to her friends. That way she have to chase me and maybe take me out of the group so we could be alone. If I were to do that then I lost. Hahah it’s sounds like a competition lol. Other than that how should I behave? Never met 6 girl so I’m nervous You absolutely should not behave like that! How RUDE. Honey, this is a 17 year old CHILD that already lied to you about her age. If you read the rules for Hinge! She is in violation of their terms of services: https://hinge.co/terms.html You legally have to be 18 to be on the site. Amy is Trouble with a capital T. Cancel the 3rd date.
Gretchen12 Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 Oh wow, yeah... nothing like a talk about aliens to really turn a girl on. Maybe you can have a picnic? 1
Author Tagalz Posted October 23, 2019 Author Posted October 23, 2019 Better topics: her favorite television shows & movies where she wants to go to college any local sports teams she follows what she likes to do for fun You can ask her if she's into gaming, magic or aliens but if she's not, shut up about them. I do not know the law in Norway but a 17 year old seems too young for you. Are her parents OK with your age? You know what you should be talking to her about? Why she lied to you about her age & why she is violating the dating app's terms of services which require her to be 18 to get on their system. This is going to blow up in your face. 16 is underage in Norway but as for her parents I don’t have any clue if it’s OK for them that I am 23. She is not watching tv series alot and all of her favourite movies are old. She has «the prince of bel air» as one of her fav TV series. She wants to study at the university but doesn’t know what yet. She don’t have any sports team that she follows. She also does not like to play games. It’s lots of things she don’t like but she do likes to hit the gym 2-3 times a week. She lied about her age on the dating app probably because she wants sex. What do you mean by that this will blow up in my face?
Author Tagalz Posted October 23, 2019 Author Posted October 23, 2019 A 17 year old girl asked you to 69? Um.... There are a lot of things you can do: Dinner Hiking Museum Haunted House Festival Pumpkin patch Cider mill / apple orchard Mini golf Thanks Clia! Yes she actually did ask me. We ate sushi the last time and she told me that she wanted to visit my apartment and walk with my dog
Author Tagalz Posted October 23, 2019 Author Posted October 23, 2019 Definitely don’t talk about childhood fears and insecurities, the meaning of life, or lies that you have told - what the heck do you mean by that? Dates are supposed to be fun my friend - this would not be fun for anyone... True that but since my job is to get to know her then telling our story would be a good idea (:
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 A 17 year old girl asked you to 69? Um.... Yeah.....um, is 69 the same thing in Norway as it is in America? And, is she expecting to get paid? Seems like a VERY odd thing to bring up over dinner if she's a totally normal teenage girl. 1
BaileyB Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 (edited) True that but since my job is to get to know her then telling our story would be a good idea (: Sure. But you would be wise to keep things light and easy... positive. Women generally don’t want yo date men who are self focused and serious. They generally want yo have fun when they date. And while these topics may be interesting to you, they may/may not be interesting for your date. You want this woman to like you... you do that by finding common interests and having fun together. Edited October 24, 2019 by BaileyB
Author Tagalz Posted October 23, 2019 Author Posted October 23, 2019 Seems like a VERY odd thing to bring up over dinner if she's a totally normal teenage girl. I have never said that I would bring up sex while having dinner with her tho
Author Tagalz Posted October 24, 2019 Author Posted October 24, 2019 You want to try and make her like you... you do that by finding common interests and having fun together. I know dating is about having fun and I think I’ve accomplished that. Took her out on bowling the first date and second date we played football. The only common interest we have is same music taste and go to the gym. Problem here would be that we train in different gym so maybe I should quit mine and start hitting the gym with her?
Author Tagalz Posted October 24, 2019 Author Posted October 24, 2019 You absolutely should not behave like that! How RUDE. Honey, this is a 17 year old CHILD that already lied to you about her age. If you read the rules for Hinge! She is in violation of their terms of services: https://hinge.co/terms.html You legally have to be 18 to be on the site. Amy is Trouble with a capital T. Cancel the 3rd date. I think you are overreacting here d0nnivain. It’s a normal thing for girls and even guys in Norway to lie about their age. Only thing that would happend to Amy is her profile getting banned from Hinge. Like if she would be in trouble then why is she still snapping me her day like everything is normal?
d0nnivain Posted October 24, 2019 Posted October 24, 2019 She lied about her age on the dating app probably because she wants sex. What do you mean by that this will blow up in my face? What I mean is that some way, some how you are going to get in trouble from the law or her parents for dating this teen 6 years your junior. Silly little teenage girls are romantics who only see the sweet fairy tale side of dating the worldly older 23 year old man. She doesn't understand that you two are in different places in your lives & you have no business being together. For heavens sake are you going to take her to a school dance at her high school? Don't be ridiculous. The administration won't let you in. You are a grown man. The other thing that you don't see in part because it's not flattering to you is that she grows & matures she will leave you behind. At this point while she's still a child in school you may be compatible in your maturity. Once she graduates & is off too college, she will expand her mind & her perspective, leaving you lagging behind because you are already an adult. At 17 I dated an adult male. He knew what would happen when I went off to college & let me go. By the time I finished my 1st year I was already bored of him. She wasn't on the app to get sex. She was on the app to appear worldly & more mature then she is. She wants bragging rights to her little girlfriends that she's dating the older guy. If all she wanted was sex she could get that from any boy in her school. She is not right for you & I think you should not go out with her. She's deceptive & more immature then you realize. I promise you if her parents get wind of your existence, they will hit the roof & ground her to prevent her from seeing you.
Author Tagalz Posted October 25, 2019 Author Posted October 25, 2019 She wasn't on the app to get sex. She was on the app to appear worldly & more mature then she is. She wants bragging rights to her little girlfriends that she's dating the older guy. If all she wanted was sex she could get that from any boy in her school. I fully agree with you! But I’m thinking to have a open relationship instead so she can have the freedom to date other guys and do whatever she likes while I maintain the friendship
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