Tagalz Posted October 15, 2019 Posted October 15, 2019 (edited) Hey! Amy invited me to play escape room/games and she asked if I wanted to bring a friend so I did. I invited my friend Alex. On our way to the train station he was angry at me for saying that Amy could get us a free pass so we don’t have to pay. He’s opinion is that I should have told him earlier that Amy don’t have any free tickets but reality is that I Amy did not have a free tickets in the first place. The only thing I told Alex was the time and adress and that’s it. Never have I said anything about going there for free. My opinion is that he has either gotten confused or that he has just misunderstood me. Like what did he expect? And when did I tell him that Amy could get us free tickets? I dunno what he’s problem is Anyhow what is your opinion on this? Edited October 16, 2019 by Tagalz
Author Tagalz Posted October 16, 2019 Author Posted October 16, 2019 Everytime we have met each other this month has lead to arguments. We have had more than two arguments in a whole month! I can’t remember what we were arguing about but it might have been small stuff. And on our way home he asks me to solve the math puzzle that we saw and I said the wrong answer. He wanted to test me and I just fooled my self in public giving him the wrong answer. I don’t get the same vibe from him now and he has changed. I think it’s time to cut him off, do you agree?
schlumpy Posted October 16, 2019 Posted October 16, 2019 I think he is jealous of your new relationship. He sees that you are moving on in life while he is flailing in place. That's why his attitude has changed. You may have outgrown your friend but like a younger brother he acts up trying to regain the attention that he once had. Be careful with him. He may try to sabotage your relationship by saying inappropriate things. I would minimize my time with him so he can adjust to the new reality.
Author Tagalz Posted October 16, 2019 Author Posted October 16, 2019 (edited) He has been stressing alot lately with school projects. I told how I felt but he has just left me on «seen» Edited October 16, 2019 by a LoveShack.org Moderator quote removed
Author Tagalz Posted October 23, 2019 Author Posted October 23, 2019 (edited) Hey. My long time friend Alex is not my friend anymore as I have cut ties with him. We have had 3-4 arguments and that sounds little but it’s alot of arguing when we are together. I also can’t remember what we were arguing about so it’s probably something small. I was more aware of the last argument we had. Enough was enough for me and I got annoyed. I used a high pitch voiced to show him that arguing that much everytime we see each other is not okay. I wrote about him on my last thread called «He accused me for something I did not do» A short recap: he basically got angry at me for saying that we could go in there for free since Amy had a free ticket. What REALLY happend is that I have never said anything to him about going there for FREE. I got home that night and scrolled up on my snapchat chat with Alex and it shows CLEARLY that I wrote «Amy needs to know if you’re coming or not so she could reserve a place for us» To add more he has been acting weird. Normally we don’t argue and we agree to alot of things. A few days ago he message me this on snapchat Alex: Are you done with being overly sensitive? Me: Yes I’m done but if you still think I am then that’s your problem, not mine Alex: sends me a text hours later asking what I’m doing. Me: I’m playing games on my Ps4 That was it. 4 days have gone and we have not contacted each other. My conclussion: I still don’t know what he’s problem is. He is being overly sensitive by arguing about small things while I can’t even remember so that’s judging me based on something which is not true. Also it’s funny that he is calling me for sensitive while he is that too. He also mentioned that he has alot of school projects that had to be done and I could see him being stressed out about it. My opinion is that it’s no excuse. He could have said that just to avoid me and speaking off I’ve been friends with him many years and he has managed to still be a good friend even if he has lots to do with school. EDIT: I want to add more information. Looking back at my friendship with him we have gone through alot of discussion, fights and even arguments. I’ve always told him to stop behaving like a drama queen because I won’t tolerate that. He used to say sorry and that he will take he’s sh*t together and be like a real friend. He says that but still the same thing happends... drama and drama with him. Not only that but he thinks he is the smartest guy in the world. He asks me to solve a math task and when I can’t he is laughing. What does he think he is? The world smartest math guy? He’s just studying at the university... he needs to chill out because there is people out there that has master degree in math and here you have Alex who think he’s the best. NO LOGIC IN THAT hahah My point is: Even if I made the wrong decision I still would not choose to go back and be friends with him because nothing is like before and we would argue and fight again after 4-5 months time. That’s called for unstable friendship. Do you think I made the right decision? Edited October 23, 2019 by Tagalz
d0nnivain Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 You have been unhappy with this friendship for a while. Letting it cool off is a good plan.
jspice Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 You don’t seem to be able to get along with anyone in your life. Perhaps he is over sensitive, we can’t see his communications. We can see yours, and you are definitely over sensitive. Maybe you should look at why you’re constantly arguing with people around you.
Author Tagalz Posted October 24, 2019 Author Posted October 24, 2019 (edited) Listen. I know myself very well as an introvert person. I am many things but I’m not the type to start the drama or say something negative out of nowhere. If I were to do something I NEED a reason for it. Meaning yes I’m arguing with him but is it really my fault? No it’s not. He is the one who started it and I got tired of him starting a argument 3-4 times almost seeming like he want to fight with me for real Edited October 24, 2019 by a LoveShack.org Moderator quote removed
jspice Posted October 24, 2019 Posted October 24, 2019 for someone who doesn’t start drama, you sure do have a lot of problems with the people around you. If he’s the one starting the arguments I would think you’d be happy to discontinue the relationship.
Author Tagalz Posted October 25, 2019 Author Posted October 25, 2019 for someone who doesn’t start drama, you sure do have a lot of problems with the people around you. If he’s the one starting the arguments I would think you’d be happy to discontinue the relationship. My personality is not for everyone and not many people understand the way I am and I have no need to probe myself for them either. You cannot please everyone That’s what I’m doing now. If he still wants to be friends with me then he will need to apologize and then take initative to ask me to hang out. So far he has not done that so our feelings are mutual
Author Tagalz Posted October 25, 2019 Author Posted October 25, 2019 You have been unhappy with this friendship for a while. Letting it cool off is a good plan. Days have gone and it has been cooled down if that’s a word? Hahah anyway if he still wants to maintain the friendship then he need to take initative to ask me to hang out and then apologize that it will not happend again. And I mean like not happen again like forever. I’ve accepted so many apologies from him but the same thing happends after 4-5 months so this time he needs to be serious. However I don’t think he will contact me anytine soon so our feelings towards each other are mutual
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