cognivore_in_love Posted September 30, 2005 Posted September 30, 2005 Dear All Of late I have a crush on this girl, whom I met at my new work place. It has been 15 days or so. I could notice that she started giving stares, and during the very first talk told me many personal details, without my asking anything. She also asked what are my plans for life and all that, in the second time we talked to each other. She makes fun of me, whenever there is a chance. I was not really sure whether she likes me or not, therefore I did respond in a lukewarm manner. We still talk to each other, and I tried to very gently indicate that I like her. I do not know she understood it or not. But, since a few days gone are the stares, and voluntary talking. I have a huge crush on her, just because I felt that she told me her personal things. I am desperate to know if she likes me or not. This has a huge emotional stress upon me, and I cannot concentrate on my work. I am afraid to ask her directly as well. I would be very grateful if some of you could provide me a line or two of advice. Thanks in advance!!
fusangite Posted September 30, 2005 Posted September 30, 2005 The thing with the early stages of attraction is that whether this girl is attracted to you will, to a fair extent, be determined by how you act around her. Romantic feelings are often the product of people's interactions, not just feelings that develop separately or independently. So, it may be that she is a little attracted to you but if you don't act on that, her attraction will disappear. Similarly, it may be that she is not thinking about you romantically at all but how you behave might cause her to start thinking about you in that way. So, my advice: approach her now before you get more obsessed and anxious and make a less attractive impression.
Copingsaw Posted October 1, 2005 Posted October 1, 2005 Come up with a few things to talk about and approach her and strike up a conversation. Do you even know if she is single? Available? Etc. Try to learn more about her. Show an interest in her like she did in you. If there is chemistry, you will feel it.
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