BlueGirl1985 Posted September 30, 2005 Posted September 30, 2005 I can't let go. I was in love with this guy for many years, all we had was a fling, and we remained friends. I eventually got a boyfriend but I was still in love with the same man and he knew. And even when we remained friends I tried so hard to just move on. Then we had a huge argument one night and it ended everything. I had my part in it but he was really verbally abusive (not first time it happens). It's been exactly a year now since I last talked to him and it still hurts, I feel like I didn't get any closure, and he hurt me pretty badly. He tried to get in contact with me over the year but I just ignored him even though I wanted to talk so badly. What kept me from talking to him again was that he didn't seem remorseful for what he did and he never apologized. I recently found out, although I don't know if it's true, that he broke up with a girlfriend..and that actually made me jealous. To be honest he's a totally crappy guy. What bothers me is that even after a year I think about him often, but I'm still with my boyfriend and I do love my boyfriend. I often get very emotional over this guy and I think the only thing I ever wanted to hear from him is that he loves me, but I have to stop hoping that it can still happen..please help me get out of this route to self-destruction.
suegail Posted September 30, 2005 Posted September 30, 2005 It's slightly confusing, because what you've said is that you wouldn't talk to him when he tried to get in touch with you, but you still haven't given up hope that you'll someday hear him say "I love you." Well, ahh...lemme see...I think...yeah, I think you'll have to actually converse with him in order to find out what he might or might not have to say. It wouldn't hurt to just talk to him. If he's still the same 'crappy' kind of guy, you'll probably realize that pretty quick and you never have to talk to him again if you'd rather not.
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