HopelessNick Posted October 6, 2019 Posted October 6, 2019 I was at the bar and there were 3 guys and a girl at the table. I had a quick chat with them and when I was gonna leave, the girl said "Are you gonna ask for my number?" I froze and didn't know what to say. I looked at her and she asked me again laughing. I looked at the guys and they said she wasn't taken. I ended up blurting out "If you want me to." She didn't say anything, so I walked off. I suck at those situations and get nervous. What should I have done? I feel like I may have missed a chance, but couldn't tell if she was serious.
Twizzlestick Posted October 6, 2019 Posted October 6, 2019 Haha I think you know the answer to this one. If you fancied her. Yes! It was handed to you on a plate . Saying “if you want me to” embarrassed her so she backed down. In future bite your tongue, take a breath for a sec, it calms the nerves. What you should’ve said was “I’m glad you mentioned that because I would actually love to swap numbers” Ah well, onwards. We’ve all been there.
smackie9 Posted October 6, 2019 Posted October 6, 2019 No matter what the situation, if you like a girl, simply ask her for her number. It won't kill ya if she says no. Just go out gracefully and say "Hey doesn't hurt to try. You have a great evening/ enjoy the rest of your evening." add a smile and swagger off like it's her loss. As for the response you could of joked and say "Oh ya you are right. I should ask you for your number. Smart girl! then just whip out yer phone and lean in over the table towards her. As you leave don't forget to address the people she is with, like "nice meeting you all." That scores points with the girl. gotta be smooth brah.
Author HopelessNick Posted October 7, 2019 Author Posted October 7, 2019 Why didn't she just ask me for my number straight out?
Maggiemay1 Posted October 7, 2019 Posted October 7, 2019 Sorry, but a girl that’s out with 3 guys , is not out to meet a another one. “I froze and didn't know what to say. I looked at her and she asked me again laughing. I looked at the guys and they said she wasn't taken. I ended up blurting out "If you want me to." She didn't say anything, so I walked off.” They were taking the piss! I don’t know why they were, but they were! Don’t give it another thought. Who were you there with btw?
Maddie82 Posted October 7, 2019 Posted October 7, 2019 Sorry, but a girl that’s out with 3 guys , is not out to meet a another one. They were taking the piss! I don’t know why they were, but they were! Don’t give it another thought I thought the same thing. Why was she out with 3 other guys? It's a bit odd.
smackie9 Posted October 7, 2019 Posted October 7, 2019 Why didn't she just ask me for my number straight out? Because girls don't or want to do that.
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