Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 23, 2019 Author Posted October 23, 2019 I dont know. Savings or something i think
Redhead14 Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 Well, if she's doing so well as to have that kind of savings available and can take care of the child herself . . . I can see why he would try to stay in her pants too Sugar mama? It's good for you too. She probably gives him money which he uses to buy you cool things like pizza. 2
Gaeta Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 Lucyjane: Diapers are expensive, formula, food, clothes, strollers, furniture, toys are EXPENSIVE. This woman has 2 babies, NO CAR, that means SHE DOESN'T HAVE MONEY TO SPARE. Can you imagine how much it cost 2 kids in diapers?? That is 12 diapers a day!! At that age you need new clothes every 3 months as they grow fast! New shoes, new clothes, new coats, more food. I am not talking about power bills ! 2 babies need A LOT of hot water and heating. This man come and go as he pleases, does not provide for his own flesh and blood, takes food from his children's mouth! leaves the mother to deal with 2 babies on her own. He's not there during the night to get up, not there to console them when teething, not there to clean when they trow up, and not there to nurture them when they bump their head. You are an intruder, you don't belong there and YOU help him be a worse father than he already was. . 3
Redhead14 Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 Gaeta is absolutely correct. I've become a little jaded and sarcastic with this thread but it's a fact that this guy is a lousy father and is using her and you. Those children deserve so much better than they are going to get I'd say. The kids are the most important part of this entire situation and they are getting the sh*tty end of the stick with two selfish parties involved and the mother isn't one of them. 2
kendahke Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 Im not asking him. Im asking your opininions My opinion is to figure out what you're going to be doing on Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's Eve when he will be with his children and their mother and you're going to have to understand that you're, at best, #4 on his priority list, behind him, his children's mother and the two kids. You're going to find out exactly what relationship you don't have.
Redhead14 Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 I have better things to do than try to help somebody else's child to grow up through a dating website. Talk to your mother or someone else, like a guidance counselor at school or a favorite Aunt. Good luck with this situation, LucyJane. 2
Gaeta Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 Lucyjane: Re-read what has been said in this last page and try to understand by yourself why you are selfish. Here is a hint, it has to do with YOU participating/helping him being a bad father to 2 little babies. 1
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 23, 2019 Author Posted October 23, 2019 Im not going to be around for the holidays anyway so i wont know what he will be doing then
stillafool Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 We didnt talk about much. We went for some food and watched a movie then he went to work in the evening How did you do all of that when you were on LS all day yesterday?
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 23, 2019 Author Posted October 23, 2019 And theres absolutely no chance that hes just being polite because she keeps texting him all the time?
Gaeta Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 You asked that question 673 posts ago and we all said 'no'. 2
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 23, 2019 Author Posted October 23, 2019 And theres no way he could just not be wanting her to kick off or stop him seeing the children, that he just doesnt want to go down the legal road?
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 23, 2019 Author Posted October 23, 2019 So again the answer is no? So the only reason he would be talking to her is because he wants to? Theres no other possible reason?
Eternal Sunshine Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 Why should OP care about his children? They are not hers. She should only care about the fact that they are a priority. At her age, she shouldn't be settling for that.
kendahke Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 So again the answer is no? So the only reason he would be talking to her is because he wants to? Theres no other possible reason? List all of the reasons you think this to be so.
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 23, 2019 Author Posted October 23, 2019 Because hes trying to be polite? Because he doesnt want to go through the courts? Because he thinks of her as a friend? Because he doesnt want to cut her out completely and admit their relationship failed? All or any of the above? I dont know!
kendahke Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 (edited) All or any of the above? I dont know! Which one do you want it to be? The issue of you not knowing is your own fault--you were up under him yesterday and didn't ask him anything, which is why I don't believe anything you're saying. Edited October 23, 2019 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 2
Gaeta Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 Because hes trying to be polite? NO Because he doesnt want to go through the courts? NO Because he thinks of her as a friend? NO Because he doesnt want to cut her out completely and admit their relationship failed? NO 1
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 23, 2019 Author Posted October 23, 2019 I missed one.... Because he thinks she will stop him seeing the children?
d0nnivain Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 (edited) All or any of the above? Lets say all of that is true. Why do you want to be with a man like that? Edited October 23, 2019 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Gaeta Posted October 23, 2019 Posted October 23, 2019 Because he thinks she will stop him seeing the children? NO Unless he's a raging lunatic that could be a danger to his children she cannot stop him from seeing them.
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