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How do you meet a girl not in your college class?


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So last year, I saw this cute girl around campus a few times but didn't really get the chance to talk to her. The semester started and I was hoping to get to know her better. However, it doesn't look like she is in any of my classess, so I'm not too sure how to get to know her? I was wondering, what could I do to approach her or try to know her better? I see she's friends with people I know

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stand outside one of her classes til she walks about then meet her.

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Or sit on the grass or steps outside where she may be and just say "Hi" when you see her and smile. Then after you see her a time or two, if she's at all interested, she'll be saying hi back and smiling.

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If she's friends with your friends, tell your friends that you'd like to meet her. Get yourself invited to anything they may do with her socially.

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Ask around of others you do know who are in the classes with her. Or stand around outside of her class doors to see if and when she is going in and out. If and when you see her say "Hello" to try to strike up a conversation.

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She is friends with people you know?

What does that mean? Are they mutual friends or people you know just like you know her?

 

Why have you waited a year to figure out how to approach her?

Have you ever even made your existence known to her? A smile or a hello?

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I was wondering, what could I do to approach her or try to know her better? I see she's friends with people I know

What can be more exciting for a girl than a confident guy that smiles, says hi, to her and gives an approving look as they walk by, and then maybe do the looks back. If you are smooth enough, it will be flattering to her, and also keeps the mystery about you.

 

But I suspect you have no game because you have been watching her from afar for over a year, so the easy way would be to ask your friends to help you out.

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Ask your friends to let you tag along to anything where she will be.

 

If you see her on campus, say hi. Name drop the people you have in common.

 

Presumably you figured out some of these connections through social media. See if you can figure out where she hangs out & go there.

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