fromheart Posted September 27, 2019 Posted September 27, 2019 Probably a party girl. Have a good time, don't invest emotionally. 1
IslandSanctuary Posted September 29, 2019 Posted September 29, 2019 Talk to her about it in a calm respectful manner. Choose your words and time and place carefully. If you can't have an adult conversation about this then she isn't worth it
Maggiemay1 Posted September 30, 2019 Posted September 30, 2019 She has a history of getting together with guys and having a fling with them and then dumping them out of nowhere is the gist I'm getting. Some of them seem to be casual hookups she discards after a bit, some are more like a relationship that have lasted up to three months. What's going on with people that are like that? What does that say about them if anything? Is this a maturity thing or signs of something that won’t change and to be weary of? If you're able to relate at all, can you give some insight? Her “history” is normal. She is a smart girl not driven by emotion only and doesn’t entertain something that simply isn’t working. She sounds like a logical person with gilted partners that don’t have an understanding of why she ended it. What’s going on with people like “that”? Emotional intelligence. That’s what!! What’s going on with people like you , that question that? You sound like someone she will eventually toss aside because you are no different to those she has dated. 2
stillafool Posted October 1, 2019 Posted October 1, 2019 This is exactly it. The only guy she will probably really "fall for" will be some Bad Boy who will probably not give a damn. Then she will want to catch him and settle down.
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