Girl wants to make up for flaking but never has time. What should I say to her?

[hmmhmmm2]

Hung out with a girl twice, we had a great time, she flaked three straight times, the third time not even a notice...I didnt respond. She apologized profusely and wanted to make it up to me over lunch. I told her i was busy during the day all week but we could do something at night and gave her two nights, Monday and wednesday, she said possibly Monday but had to check her schedule, in asked if Tuesday worked better, she said she worked 11 to 3 but could do after..I said 630, and she said she had to have dinner with her friend so wanted to do earlier, which I didnt want to cuz in work during the day and dont want to rush in and out...I feel like if shes serious about making it up she would have made it a priority on her schedule...should I just tell her I dont think this is gonna work between us?

[Believer1980]

If she flaked on you three times, once with no notice, I would just move on without discussion. People make time for who they want to make time for and no one, who is seriously interested in you, is going to "flake" on you at all - let alone three times.

 

On top of that she is trying to get you to do something during the day, in a limited time window. This indicates to me that she is not willing to give up an evening for you which would mean an actual date and the possibility of romance.

 

I could be wrong but I would just walk away.

[preraph]

She's avoiding rather than welcoming spending time with you. That's all you need to know.

[The Outlaw]

If she were interested, she'd more than make the time for no instead of one countless excuse after the other. And if she flaked on you without notice, just move on.

[basil67]

Based on the title alone, I'd say "goodbye"