max3732 Posted September 19, 2019 Posted September 19, 2019 On Tinder I've stopped carefully reading all the profiles and now just swipe right on anyone that looks like I might be interested in. After matching with this woman I saw she is just going to be in my area for a few days on a business trip. We have a bunch of common interests so I invited her to an activity and she accepted and then also said maybe lunch or dinner too. This may be a dumb question, but am I wasting my time meeting someone only here a few days? Would she be looking for something romantic or just a guy to hang out with while she's bored? I'm not quite sure what to expect
Gaeta Posted September 19, 2019 Posted September 19, 2019 Why didn't you ask? People are on dating thinking it's bad manner to ask what type of dating they're looking for. To me, meeting someone while on a business trip is simply a hook up meeting. 2
Author max3732 Posted September 19, 2019 Author Posted September 19, 2019 Why didn't you ask? People are on dating thinking it's bad manner to ask what type of dating they're looking for. To me, meeting someone while on a business trip is simply a hook up meeting. She says in her profile she's "looking for a partner in life". I wouldn't mind making out with her, but wouldn't want to go further than that. You think I should just ask her in person?
Gretchen12 Posted September 19, 2019 Posted September 19, 2019 You should ask before she arrives. Unless she's coming for a job interview or transfer, I wouldn't bother with long distance. 1
smackie9 Posted September 19, 2019 Posted September 19, 2019 Stop over thinking it and just enjoy the day. Who knows what's going to happen....just have fun. 2
alphamale Posted September 19, 2019 Posted September 19, 2019 She says in her profile she's "looking for a partner in life". ALL women's profiles say that 3
chillii Posted September 20, 2019 Posted September 20, 2019 Yeah l'd say don't even worry about it and besides, you don't even know if you'll like each other yet butttt, the rest you can talk over the wkend, and try to have some fun. 1
Highndry Posted September 20, 2019 Posted September 20, 2019 I would never in a million years hook up with a gal who was just in the area for a few days and wanted some sex. Just the thought of how many dudes she's done that with before kills it for me.
crispytoast Posted September 20, 2019 Posted September 20, 2019 (edited) I would never in a million years hook up with a gal who was just in the area for a few days and wanted some sex. Just the thought of how many dudes she's done that with before kills it for me. Well then don't use Tinder ever because a majority of women who actually meet up with people off it just want a casual hookup. It doesn't matter if they are only in town for a weekend or if they live 5 blocks from you, they've more than likely got more dick in the last month or so than you've gotten pussy in the last year. Me? I wouldn't even worry about that. Just wrap your tool and have fun. I'm not gonna be the kind of fool who tries to seriously date someone I met off of Tinder. Edited September 20, 2019 by crispytoast 1
Author max3732 Posted September 20, 2019 Author Posted September 20, 2019 Well then don't use Tinder ever because a majority of women who actually meet up with people off it just want a casual hookup. It doesn't matter if they are only in town for a weekend or if they live 5 blocks from you, they've more than likely got more dick in the last month or so than you've gotten pussy in the last year. Me? I wouldn't even worry about that. Just wrap your tool and have fun. I'm not gonna be the kind of fool who tries to seriously date someone I met off of Tinder. Considering I'm still a virgin I don't know about my first time being with someone that loose. Plus I suggested meeting up in the morning when it's not so hot. It's been so many years since I've kissed a woman I wouldn't mind doing that or making out. I really need the practice getting comfortable with physical touch on a date. Say we go outside and are having fun and have lunch. I just don't know how to escalate it from there.
chillii Posted September 20, 2019 Posted September 20, 2019 I would never in a million years hook up with a gal who was just in the area for a few days and wanted some sex. Just the thought of how many dudes she's done that with before kills it for me. Me either , but we don't know that's how it is.
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