Gottabestrong Posted September 29, 2005 Posted September 29, 2005 I have been talking (via letters) for a few months to the best friend of my friend's husband. This guy (lets call him Bob) has made it quite clear that he wants to have a serious relationship with me. Even though my friend and her husband think Bob is great, I have decided that I dont really want to be in touch with him anymore. How do I best tell him that I am not interested, without hurting his feelings or pride? We will probably still see each other a lot in the future, at functions organized by our friends who just started a family, and I dont want us to feel uncomfortable around each other. Normally I would just take forever to reply to his letters and tell him that I am really busy, thereby letting the connection thizzle out, but in these circumstances I am not sure this is the right thing to do.
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