terminatrix Posted September 29, 2005 Posted September 29, 2005 A few years ago, while at a convention, I met this really great guy. He looked average, and had a fantastic personality. I saw him again last year, we flirted a little, but I never told him how I truly felt - but we have been contacting each other since August now. I told him how I felt and he says he feels exactly the same. But he lives a 4 hour train journey away from me! We are so alike in personality, quiet and shy. He is coming to see me this weekend. I am not sure whether as friends, or the possibility of something more. This sounds really stupid, but now I feel so scared. I have never ever had a boyfriend before, and have no idea what I am doing. Plus the only time we have ever talked in person was at the conventions, when my older brother was always around. I don't know what to do! I don't really want to push away because I am scared!
TnT Posted September 29, 2005 Posted September 29, 2005 Hey i think u need to relax... dont be scared... he is coming to visit u for a reason, so just be yourself and ull be fine.
d.s. Posted September 29, 2005 Posted September 29, 2005 It's okay to be scared. When I went out for the first time I was scared too. The good thing is, you already know that he is coming all that way just for you. Whether it be as friends or more, he is still coming to see you. Just be yourself and you'll be just fine. HTH
littlekitty Posted September 29, 2005 Posted September 29, 2005 Just go with the flow. It will take you both some time to 'settle' with being around each other in person. Don't expect anything, and enjoy the time you have with him. I would try not to put pressure on yourself or him. It sounds like he is very much interested in you, and since you have discussed this you can be fairly sure. Plus it's good that you were able to be open with each other about it. Don't be scared, just sit back, enjoy and see what comes of it!!
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