Maddie82 Posted September 16, 2019 Posted September 16, 2019 I agree with you, but why would he make this up? To cover up the fact that he didn't want to talk to her the whole night. He was already becoming distant.
Author Erin2 Posted September 19, 2019 Author Posted September 19, 2019 So interestingly, he just asked me to go get lunch with him. WTH?! We have barely spoken for the past 2 years.
Maddie82 Posted September 19, 2019 Posted September 19, 2019 Are you going to go? He might just mean as friends.
Author Erin2 Posted September 19, 2019 Author Posted September 19, 2019 Yeah, I’m sure he means just as friends. I feel awkward going, but I will go anyway.
stillafool Posted September 19, 2019 Posted September 19, 2019 Yeah, I’m sure he means just as friends. I feel awkward going, but I will go anyway. Why? What are you hoping for? This is what I mean, the minute they call one starts running their way.
justicegrl Posted September 19, 2019 Posted September 19, 2019 So interestingly, he just asked me to go get lunch with him. WTH?! We have barely spoken for the past 2 years. Omg how weird is that?! You starting this thread after two years and him asking you to lunch, after two years of little to no contact? Is he a member of this forum, do you think he read the thread? Are you gonna go?
Gaeta Posted September 19, 2019 Posted September 19, 2019 Yeah, I’m sure he means just as friends. I feel awkward going, but I will go anyway. So you have not learn from this. Erin: When we get out of an abusive relationship we are extremely vulnerable and we tend to fall for the first man that gives us a bit of attention. It also takes a few falls before we learn our lesson. Instead of meeting this man, which is like going backward, you should be spending your energy in building the new life you want for yourself.
FMW Posted September 20, 2019 Posted September 20, 2019 (edited) Wow, that's a really weird coincidence. I understand wanting to meet him for lunch, but be very diligent in keeping your expectations in check. As in don't have any. If you know for sure he is still with the other woman, it would certainly be best to decline the invitation though. Way too many ways for that to not go in a direction that would be good for you. Edited September 20, 2019 by Finding my way 1
Maddie82 Posted September 21, 2019 Posted September 21, 2019 I dont think it's a good idea to go. He doesn't know what he wants. Why now after 2 years? It's weird.
winny Posted September 21, 2019 Posted September 21, 2019 it seems to me that you started the thread because he asked you for lunch and you gave the info later and not as part of original thread? anyways, no you should not meet him for lunch since you are clearly not over him.
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