shyguy1126 Posted September 29, 2005 Posted September 29, 2005 i really like this girl and i cant stop thinking about her and she knows i like her and i see her looking at me sometimes then sometimes she dont and i had my chance to talk to her a couple of time but i got nervous and didnt do anything and this has been goin on for months and she still looks and everything but i dont know if its too late please help and if i do talk to her what should i say i never even talked to her before????????????????
Art_Critic Posted September 29, 2005 Posted September 29, 2005 Try to relax when you are thinking about her and go up to her and just start talking to her.. Don't try too hard about what to say.. Just be yourself..
Jayhawks Posted September 29, 2005 Posted September 29, 2005 Lighten up guy. It is not brain surgery your attempting, you are just trying to convey interest in another human being. She knows you like her so all you have to do is act on your interest. Smile at her and say hello. Practice this in a mirror if you need to so you can get comfortable. I am assuming you are in school with her so you can talk about anything school related. Don't try to carry on a long conversation at first so you don't have to worry about running out of topics. As you see her more she may help you by returning some vocabulary and you are on your way. Don't wait to long to ask for a date as you may get in the friends zone if you just say friendly. Relax and have fun with it. Women are fun and interesting. You will like green eggs and ham , Sam I Am.
SuperMonk Posted September 29, 2005 Posted September 29, 2005 talk about anything... get her number within 7 min of talking and depart... move in, move out, like a supermonk.
Guest Posted September 29, 2005 Posted September 29, 2005 Well, i read your thread and i felt like it touched me somehow.. I have the same problem... There's this guy whom i like for 1.5+ years now and he's with me in school. I talk to him from time to time about school matters or during classes. I really like him and i wish i could tell him that. He looks at me sometimes and i look at him back, but without smiling or anything. Well, i can feel that there is something in his heart for me. BUT, since he did not approach me or show any signal or action that would let me be positive that he likes me, I will not even try to talk to him. I think the guy has to take the initiative and beleive she's waiting for you. Just hurry up before someone else gets her attention/heart. GOOD LUCK!
Dream2 Posted September 29, 2005 Posted September 29, 2005 Well, I read your thread and I felt like it touched me somehow.. I have the same problem... There's this guy whom I like for 1.5+ years now and he's with me in school. I talk to him from time to time about school matters or during classes. I really like him and I wish I could tell him that. He looks at me sometimes and I look at him back, but without smiling or anything. Well, I can feel that there is something in his heart for me. I really cannot stop thinking about him; BUT, since he did not approach me or show any signal or action that would make me certain that he likes me, I will not even try to talk to him. I think the guy has to take the initiative and believe she's waiting for you. Just hurry up before someone else gets her attention/heart. GOOD LUCK! and let us know how it goes:cool:
fusangite Posted September 30, 2005 Posted September 30, 2005 i really like this girl and i cant stop thinking about her and she knows i like her and i see her looking at me sometimes then sometimes she dont and i had my chance to talk to her a couple of time but i got nervous and didnt do anything and this has been goin on for months and she still looks and everything but i dont know if its too late please help and if i do talk to her what should i say i never even talked to her before????????????????OK -- this girl, if she likes you, already knows you are shy and likes you anyway. Over the past few months, you have made it abundantly clear that you are a shy guy. So, she's already expecting that if you try to talk to her, you will stammer, stutter, sweat, etc. Don't worry about trying to look cool or suave when you talk to her. Expect that you will look nervous and awkward and do it anyway. The worst thing that could happen is that she'll say "no" and you won't have to worry and fret about the situation anymore.
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