Beendaredonedat Posted September 12, 2019 Posted September 12, 2019 Better choose a virgin from a balanced family then, because everyone has baggage. They should have stored it away before they started dating though. Romantic history is different then romantic baggage.
fromheart Posted September 12, 2019 Posted September 12, 2019 They should have stored it away before they started dating though. Romantic history is different then romantic baggage. They don't have to 'should of,' done anything. If you want to get angry over whom your partner talks to, when he's being completely loyal, better put up with an obedient, feminized boy slave. No masculine man will put up with being told whom he can communicate with, and what he should be doing. If you wish to control people, you will not get a masculine partner.
Beendaredonedat Posted September 12, 2019 Posted September 12, 2019 I was addressing your statement about us all having baggage. We all do not. Some clearly have not processed their past and carry around that chip on their shoulder or pain in their heart (known as relationship baggage) that ruins most of their subsequent connections. 2
Maddie82 Posted September 12, 2019 Posted September 12, 2019 If he's communicating with an ex without an emotional tie, then there's no problem. She was his ex wife. There was an emotional tie. The OPs ex is an ex for a reason. Anyone who restricts your communication and friendships, who can't respect your word and who cause's unnecessary drama for no reason has to go. OP's gf caused no drama and did not try and restrict his communication with anyone. If you actually read it properly (which i don't think you did and just saw what you wanted to see) it says that he offered to stop talking to his ex wife (although a bit too late when he actually did it) but she said she didn't want to be the person that stopped him from talking to people. Did you see the OPs gf as your ex or something and instantly attack her for that reason? 2
fromheart Posted September 12, 2019 Posted September 12, 2019 (edited) The OP has allowed the drama to continue, by seeking to be intimate with someone who doesn't have a high regard for loving communication skills and an inability to trust. As you are seeking to attack me for daring to disagree with you, I can only conclude that you also place a high value on drama, and less in constructive communication. Perhaps the OP could handle his ex in a better way, but he was being completely honest with his new partner and left it open to discussion. He stresses that he was being friends with his ex. Perhaps you didn't read what the OP has wrote. She responded by dumping him. Her rules or goodbye. No flexibility, no easy going attitude. Immediate distrust, permanent stonewall. Life gets harder than your bf being friends with his ex, so this is a woman to completely avoid. Edited September 12, 2019 by fromheart
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